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Allison, 28
United States, Michigan, Jackson

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About Me

Hello,I am a 26 y/o SWF who is searching to find someone to date casually at first, but in hopes of it becoming something long term. I am not getting any younger, and want to have a family one day, but I don't want to rush into anything either. I currently work as a paralegal, although, I am trying to break into the law enforcement field by way of police. I love the legal field, but want something a little more-hands on and in the action, rather than behind a desk or in a cubicle, though there are long waiting lists to even be considered as an officer. So for the time being, until I get my dream job, I have a good, steady career that I enjoy.I am usually considered the "life of the party", but not the center of attention. I like to have a good time, whatever I'm doing, but can sit back and people watch, and listen to what others have to say before voicing my opinions. I want to find someone to share my life with, and new experiences, and I am not looking for someone to take care of me. I am loyal to a fault, and extremely laid back (unless you're in the car with me- I have horrible road rage lol). I prefer not to have a bunch of drama in my life, so would appreciate if you wouldn't either. I am open to the idea of dating someone with children, though I don't want to date someone with several children from several mothers (see aforementioned no-drama rule). I like to dress super-girlie in dresses, skirts, and heels, and do my hair and makeup, but that doesn't mean that I can't get down and dirty and hang up my straightener for a weekend of camping or the like. I just tend to like to put my best foot forward, and that takes time and effort in your appearance I think. That being said, I am nowhere near high maintenance or otherwise "****y and girlie". I tend to have interests that are very tomboyish. I love to watch sports, so you'll never have to worry about me wanting to have a heart to heart or me venting to you in the middle of the big game lol. I like to keep up with some of those sports as well as watching MMA events and UFC. I prefer comedies or action/horror flicks over chick flicks, though, I do have to say that I love the Notebook. I hate shopping for the most part, and would never drag you along with me if you didn't want to go. I would say that my sense of humor is classified as sarcastic, and need someone that can dish it out as well as take it. Please, no Sensitive Sally's...if I start ragging on you, it's probably because I like you ;) I can play cards, throw some cornhole, or hang with the fellas, all while doing so in some heels lol. I like to think that I am the best of both worlds lol.I don't get to watch TV too much, but always like there to be some noise. I tend to have the radio or TV on at all times. I tend to like a lot of old school and new school rock, some country, some pop, and some rap, but more in moderation. One of my favorite things to do is cook (and I'm pretty good at it) and just turn the radio on and go to town in my kitchen. I'm definitely more of a kitchen singer, rather than one in the shower lol. Maybe if you're lucky, I will cook for you sometime... I don't know but I've heard this rumor that the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach lol... I'm not too picky on first dates... they usually are kind of like job interviews, but maybe with some better perks, other times, maybe not, lol. Since no matter what they always seem to be somewhat awkward, I think that the first date should be out of both peoples' comfort zones. Taking a girl to your favorite bar where you're a regular, or something like that is usually pretty lame. I'm also not a fan of movies, unless there is dinner or something beforehand to get to know one another. Nothing is more awkward than sitting in silence with someone that you've just met for 2 hours, and then going out to dinner. Sure, it gives you something to talk about at dinner, but if at that dinner, the movie is the only thing to keep the conversation going, then it was doomed from the start anyhow. Now, dinner, then movie is perfectly OK in my book, because by the end of dinner, I hope that both of us have figured out whether or not we want to sit in awkward silence with the other person or not (and the answer at that point would be yes if you go to the movie, no if we call it an early night) giving you the OK to make the move of pulling up the arm rests in the movie and getting a little closer ;) Then it's not creepy lol. But, I think something that neither or you have done, something that you've both been wanting an excuse to go do...those are the most fun dates. Those are the dates where you can laugh at each other or yourselves if you are an epic fail at the activity, or cheer each other on if one or both of us has a natural talent for the activity. And, it gives us a heads up of how competitive you are and how you handle certain situations. I mean, if we go putt-putting and you lose, and you are in a bad mood the whole rest of the time, or complain about how you never play that badly, or whatever, it shows if you're a sore loser or not, and how much you let things affect you, which are pretty big issues down the road. It gives us girls a much needed heads up about how you will handle yourself, your anger, your sense of humor, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Punk Italian Korean Vietnamese Adventure Mystery
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