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BrianaOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Here we go again.....I am an independent woman. I have a very busy life. Work full time, single mom, and toying with the idea of taking online classes in order to get my masters degree. I have a young daughter that is my whole world. She lives with me most of the time and is not just part of the picture but "is" the picture so if you aren't comfortable with a child then don't waste your or my time. I have my own house and my own car, and although neither are very fancy, they are mine. I also have family responsibilities that keep me in this general geographic area so if you are not settled in this general area then once again don't waste either of our time. My last "deal-breaker" point has to do with religion. I'm no saint. Far from it. But I was raised in church and am active in it now. I attend most Sunday's and take part in various church activities and it is important to me. If you attend often or rarely, if you are religious or simply spiritual, then we are ok. If you are an atheist or agnostic then we are not a match. Been there, done that, didn't work. Now that all the general housekeeping is out of the way and I have explained why I might be a challenge for some, let me give you some good qualities so you don't think I"m a wicked witch or something. I have a very kind heart although I am very guarded. I have trust issues but it's not something that can't be worked through. I am honest and loyal and hardworking. I have been accused of being too good to the person I am with. I don't believe you can treat a person too good, that you just have to keep searching until you find one that will put you on a pedestal just as high as the one you have placed them on. I am affectionate and like a lot of attention. I am a little rough around the edges in general and have a sarcastic sense of humor but I can be refined and will fit in perfectly in most situations. I like to have fun and enjoy life. It's way too short to be too serious. I love to have my toes in the sand at the beach and hiking to waterfalls in the mountains. I love dressing up for fancy dinners and hanging out by a bonfire in jeans and a sweatshirt. Anyway, this brief introduction just scratches the surface. Feel free to message me if you are interested in knowing more.As far as what I'm looking for that is a whole other story. I am looking for that "spark". You know what I'm talking about. I want someone who I can't wait to spend time with. Someone I want to hold hands with if we are out and about. Someone to snuggle up with on the sofa and share some wine while watching a movie. Someone I can take a long road trip with and not run out of things to say, but who I can be comfortable with just riding in silence and holding hands. Someone to share life's moments with and build a strong relationship from them. Someone to make memories with. I haven't found that yet. I've settled for less over the years and I'm not settling for anything less than I want anymore. I want a man's man. A real tough guy that has a softer side too. Someone who makes me feel safe. Someone who is honest and faithful. Someone who is way more romantic than me :-) Guess I'm looking for a fairy tale. Problem is experience has made me believe they don't exist. So I need someone who is going to prove me wrong about that day after day after day.....
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TamraOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
It saddens me to realize that I've had to reduce myself to one single choice from a drop-down menu. Personality- dreamer/hopeless romantic: I have hopes and dreams for my future and the future of my children/grandchildren, I long for that one man that lights up an entire world of chaos and craziness and completes me like no other man could with just the sound of his voice, the smile on his face, the touch of his hands, or the look in his eyes. Adventurer: love the outdoors, trying new things, going new places and revisiting old places. My gardening skills have some room for improvement, but I enjoy it. Professional: I'm a nurse, professionalism is a job requirement, not a personality, but one I am able to fill when needed. Animal lover: love my cats and dog, they are faithful, loyal, and mischievous...awesome companions. Homebody: love the comfort and security of home, spending time with my family. Tattooed/pierced: yep, two tats and one additional piercing besides my ears...and nope they don't bother me as long as I can tell you're under there somewhere. Geek: still play xbox/play station with my two grown boys. Something we've done together for years. Love a good meteor shower, staring at the stars for hours in the peace and quiet of the night. Thunderstorms....love 'em...not very conducive to outdoorsy things but totally awesome for curling up with a good man and a movie.Love movies of all types and most music...if it's got a good beat odds are, I love it! Love to be curled up with a good book, cup of coffee, and a warm blanket.Compassionate, passionate, loyal, honest, loving, caring, sharing, trustworthy, imperfect, apologetic, sarcastic, witty, straightforward, openminded, observant, moral, ethical....Maybe I should just write a book? Love a man that can make me laugh, you know the kind of infectious laughter when you are laying in bed cracking up and one of you just can't stop laughing which in turn results in you laughing just because they are and by the time it's over you can't even remember what the heck you were laughing at, but it sure was funny. Love a man that I'm comfortable and safe with in that way that no matter how good the movie is...I just can't help but fall asleep wrapped in his arms. I was recently informed that the above is a memory, a "ghost" if you will, and that because of that "ghost"...none of you stand a chance. It's no secret that some of us have loved before...I prefer to look at that as yeah, a memory, it happened...it was good while it lasted. That doesn't mean another man can't make me feel comfortable, safe, and make me laugh like there is no tomorrow. The man I had those things with loved me the best way he knew how, it obviously wasn't near the love I deserved and yeah he hurt me too...not gonna cry a river over it, I'm not here to bash my ex. It was a learning experience. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. And obviously he wasn't "the one". Those things up there are, I guess, just a few things I miss about having a relationship. I've been single almost a year. Didn't even consider dating for the first six months...had no desire to hurt someone else while I was trying to figure out how to get my head and my heart in the same place at the same time. I love the person I am, always room for improvement but have no regrets for the life I've lived. I could be completely fascinated by a man that can communicate his hopes, dreams, fears, needs and what he desires in and out of the bedroom. It's not only a necessity to a strong relationship, but a complete turn on. Impressed by a man that gives from his heart, not just his wallet. Can totally appreciate a man who works hard, plays hard, and still finds time to spend time with those he holds close to his heart. I believe in that "forever" kind of love but am not so naive as to think that it happens over night. A relationship has to be nurtured to last. And that takes willingness to work when work is needed, play when play is needed and to be passionate when passion is needed. I know, I know, it's a lot. These are not requirements to date, dating should be fun. Meeting people. Learning about them and whether or not you mesh well. If not, hopefully you've made a good friend. What these are though...are hopefully what I'll find myself experiencing with one of you, and I will not settle for an exclusive relationship without them. So, if I do find myself experiencing these things with one of you...you're gonna be one lucky man, and I'll be one lucky woman. Something casual, comfortable, fun with an atmosphere conducive to conversation...after all I'm a woman...love to talk :)
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HelenOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
My goal in life is to be a great mother and a good person. My career is important to me so along with my children it is top priority. I dont get out much to meet people so here I am.i love listening to music and grooving to it. Ive been to disneyland 4 times as an adult so I have a little bit of kid in me still :) im independent and dont want a controlling man in my life ' AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT' if you dont have a JOB please dont bother me. Im not going to pay your bills or b your doormat! !! If your a real man with a real job and you're interested in an adult relationship than hit me up. Oh and btw...why do men around my age wear a goe t?? Im not a fan of facial hair fyi :)