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Petra, 34
United States, New York, Elmhurst

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About Me

Before I get started, some of the more valuable words in my vocabulary where others(of the opposite sex, of course) are concerned include(but are not limited to): forthwright, integrity, initiative, masculinity, astute, and finesse. If these words do not easily describe you please stop, hit the 'back' button, and continue on with your search. That having been said...Hello Gentlemen,I'm here simply looking for a exciting encounters, whatever form that may take(if you're thinking about sex already, stop, hit the back button, and keep searching). My preference is for men with classic values and appreciation for a woman's femininity(bonus points will be awarded for those who can cook). Suggestions for new experiences are always welcome, if you're willing to take the lead. Some words others have used to describe me would be artsy, outdoorsy, extroverted, and cerebral(the latter makes good conversationalists a must). Honesty is valued above all else.Thank you for stopping by. Have a great day!PS--I always thought it would be fun to have a fling with a man who owned a motorcycle.***Addendum: Did I mention that I love military men? Let me be honest...I love all men, they just get a special appreciation. Also, please don't honestly expect an answer if you fill your e-mail with mindless characters to hit the limit. If you need someone to carry the conversation or initiate a meeting, I am certain there are other women on this site who would be happy to assist. A woman really needs someone to take her like a man(and treat her/talk to her like a lady).***Addendum: Please let me be clear--though I am outwardly sexual, I am not here in search of a sex partner. If great sex happens to be a by-product of an oustanding date, far be it from me to stick my nose up(I am not a prude, after all). :) PS--please note that hurling your number at me in an e-mail and expecting me to call is probably not the best way to get my attention.***Addendum: My goal with this post is to meet people in person. Are there any gentlemen here that are willing to actually meet in person?***Addendum: I am a happy person. You should be, as well. Also, I will never ever waste your time(and expect the same).***Addendum: Does sending a text message(which goes to my phone from your phone) saying 'Call me' really make sense? Does that imply that you've somehow lost my number? Please also refer to part B of the ***Addendum for support.***Addendum: Texters are a turnoff. I'm pretty sure I mentioned something about being able to hold a conversation(cool points for added wit and humor).***Addendum: A man opening the car door for a woman is delightful.***Addendum: Sorry to anyone who sent a message during my absence. I was closing on a new house and am now swimming in boxes(feel free to rescue me-- So the addendum this time is pls dnt bthr snding msgs if u hv a hrd time writing in full sntnces. I really dnt care if ur sending msgs from ur phone, not hvng access to a real computer dsnt excuse poor grmatics n sntenc structure. A wmn needs intellectual stimulation.***Addendum: Let me be direct...I don't text. If you can't read, it's truly not my problem. Don't be hurt, it's simply a personal preference. I deal in real life, not virtuality.***Addendum: All references to the ***Addendum aside, if you barely glance up from your menu and don't bother to stand and greet me on an initial meeting your chances of seeing me ever again are extremely slim. You shouldn't wonder after an incident like that why you're not getting a response.***Addendum: Sending me a text message 20min after we are scheduled to meet at a restaurant that wasn't even open and expecting a response is a wasted effort. Following it up with a phone call an hour later is simply annoying.***Addendum: Again, I am not here for sex. If your profile mentions you're looking for an intimate encounter and you're trying to convince me in a chat session that you want more than that, it probably won't work. Excuse my ffrench, but please don't piss on my back and tell me it's raining.***Addendum: I heard on the radio this morning that people were flocking to Vegas to get married. My hope for all those couples who are brave enough to go on an impulse is that they never lose the courage of spontaneity. My hope for their impulse is that it was well seated.***Addendum: Throwing a fit about small things either upon a first meeting or first conversation is completely unbecoming. I'm really looking for someone who is tactful and able to communicate their points.***Addendum: Forum Letters. Really? If you can't think of something original to say, I don't believe you have the right to 'want someone special'. If your actions are the same for every woman, how do you expect to find something different?***Addendum: Oh lord, I can't believe I have to say this. No, I am not ***friendly(are you nuts???!?!?!). I have worked entirely too hard to get where I'm at and would never do anything so stupid to jeopardize my success.***Addendum: If you chat with me for 2 seconds and ask me creepy questions, don't get upset when I'm reluctant to give you my digits. I have a lot of contacts in my phone, and it would be a serious pain to update them because I gave my number to a weirdo.***Addendum: Note to self...don't give creepers another chance to redeem themselves. Do I really need to say that you're not going to get any cool points or hold my attention if you as me if I have a big booty? I consider myself a positive person, but I have to wonder how people like that made it to adulthood and keep a job(afterthought: but then again...I don't know that they do).PS--thank you to the well mannered gentleman who was in the air force. Making a woman laugh is always much appreciated, as is the engaging conversation.***Addendum: Let it be said that everyone online is not a dud. Thank you, Mr. No preferences for a first date--there are many factors that influence where to go and what to do. Good chemistry will promote an enjoyable evening, no matter which option is chosen. I will say that you should have an idea where you want to take me. Yes, you will be leading-I don't want a man I can walk on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Caribbean Greek Korean Horror Thriller Snowboarding
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Ok ill lay it out there right away! I need someone to not be superficial and not look past what you see right now in person. Due to medication I recently gained quickly and got off that awful med. I am not use to my body size I was ***lbs now I'm closer to ***but am actively working out and dieting and whatever I can do to fix what the side effect did to me. And never judge people on their past! I am a hopeless romantic! I think following your heart is risky but worth it. Better have loved and lost then never have loved before. I grew up with hopeless romantic role models. For one my paternal grandparents. After a coin toss with his brother my grandfather won and got to ask her to dance. A few weeks later went to her father to ask for her hand in marriage! Married well over 60 years until my grandfather died. When he could not remember anyone not even his siblings or kids, my grandmother would walk in and he would say that is my lovely wife. They argued but never went to bed angry which I think a argument once in awhile is healthy unlike what most think. I am a gentle soul. If you are gentle with me ill be gentle with you. I follows heart which doesn't always work out so well but as they say better to have loved and lost then never have loved before. I need a man. Someone who knows how to treat a lady and others. If you are at all *** stop reading and keep on with your search. I love the nerds and dorks. I am one too. I need to be able to carry on an intellectual conversation or a deep conversation. But turn around and be able to laugh until my face hurts from smiling with you. I'm a kid at heart. I'm all about my family. God there is a ton I can write but I'm rambling. Hope this gives you an idea. Dinner coffee and a movie.... A hike or walk... Fishing... I have always wanted to go for a walk or hike or go fishing and him bring a picnic he put together himself even if its just pbj and water!

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