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Elva, 34

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About Me

I have an established career and am looking to enjoy life. I truly enjoy the water. Swimming, snorkeling, boating, seafood, traveling to tropical destinations. I have 2 children (boy 18, girl 4) and am currently going through a divorce. I am new to the online dating scene and, quite frankly, out of touch with dating as I was with my future ex-husband for 16 years. I am not the type of girl who sleeps with someone on the first date and prefer to be romanced and treated like a lady. I have worked hard in my life to become the person I am today. I made the mistake of staying with the wrong person for the right reasons and have come a long way since then. I am laid back, open-minded and one of the least judgemental people you would ever meet. I can put on a pair of high heels and diamond earrings as fast as I can take off my blue jeans and t-shirt. I like all kinds of music from classical to rap to death metal to country. I am well-rounded, educated, professional and strive to keep my family balanced through the current transition. Family has always been extremely important to me but I have never been one to turn down a good time with friends, wine and laughter. I enjoy books, movies, a little tv but make sure to hit the gym at least twice a week. I appreciate life for what it has to offer and have a knack for balancing fun, money and responsibility and coming out on top. It doesn't have to be the cliché dinner and a movie. Sometimes I think it's good to see the movie first, then have the date after so there is something to talk about. I enjoy wine and fine dining but am never too snobby to hit up Panera or pack a picnic lunch at the beach or the pool.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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