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I was here. I left. I came back. I will update very soon with more info. I lost my long and drawn out novel of a profile. *sigh* don't worry it grows back like a bad haircut. I am a woman of many facets. To try to describe myself to you would be frustrating for me and would only be my perception of self. That being said, I suppose who I am to you depends on what part of me you choose to tap into. Eventually, with enough time invested, you may see it all. Some see me as colorful and vibrant. Energetic, perhaps a little childlike, and soulfully inspired with many ideas, some new and some old. Yes I have a kid and she's almost as tall as me and she specializes in chasing off douches *laugh* I'm kidding. Sense of humor in tact.On the flip side, I can be many things most people can be, such as impatient, intolerant. I can be prideful. There's a whole list of things, but I remain willing to look at myself. I have taken time to look at my past and present behaviors and progress as I learn life lessons. I feel I have come a long way. One KEY thing about me... I do NOT drink. Nor do drugs. I still have plenty of fun I just remember it all now. *smile* I also try my best to live an honest life of principles and values. I will wait as long as it takes to find the one whose values coincide. Ok one more thing. I don't drive. It's a lifestyle choice for me. Something many can't fathom. But I do, and that's what matters :-) So unless you enjoy driving the distance, its best to be fairly local to visit because though I can get places, I can't get everywhere unless I call a taxi and well...that is a luxury I can't afford. If you are of sound spirit, mind, and body (most of the time) I would especially love to talk to you. If your idea of a good time doesn't involve going to a bar that gains you extra bonus points, especially because I don't drink. I probably won't be staying.... Locals seem to really love it here, or at least making the best of it. I am making the best of my temporary time here as well. But it is... temporary. I've had a dream in my mind since age 14 that I would live in NY or a vast city. I have lived on a few beaches in my life and didn't go. Up for a road trip? I'm in! If you just want to hang out and go do fun stuff and random day trips I am good for that too, well, once we meet and greet and all is swell.; HimBjorkFleet FoxesMumford &; OatesPearl JamJohn LennonYeah Yeah YeahsEdith PiafBeach HousePhoenixand so many many more. I'm a total musical freak. Music is ALWAYS on at my place. I'm dead without it seriously... yep... brace yourself! I love dancing. And I love cheese. ;-)Books:Art History booksAnything Charles****nsH.G. WellsTime travel novels Design Magazines (fashion/architectural/home) Something fun that takes away the pressure of the idea of being on "the first date". Doesn't have to be extravagant. A night of bowling could be fun. I think the ideal first date is jumping on a giant trampoline and see who can fly eachother the highest. But that's me. Have a giant trampoline? Bonus points for you. Yes I'm a big kid.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Agnes

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Update: Please read my profile before u message me. I have a preference, which is black men. So theirs no need to waste ur time or mine. I have my bachelors degree in Business Administration and currently debating on going back and getting my masters in either business management or actually going a completely different route and going to design school. My dream career has always been to be a top interior designer for both residential and commercial design.I'll be 34 in July. Ive been Married and divorced never had any children but would love some. I'm a very straight forward person. I say what I feel and I believe communication is the key to any successful relationship. I'm a girlie girl. I love to go out to nice bars or lounges from time to time, I don't do the club scene I believe at a certain age ur butt just doesn't belong there anymore. I love wine tasting, road trips and traveling. But I also am a homebody. Watch a movie and cuddle up n a pair of sweats. I love to laugh so someone with a sense of humor would be a huge plus. I've recently started kickboxing 3x's a week and I love it. I go to the gym, as I'm trying to get back n to better shape and be more healthy.I'm Just looking to build a solid foundation with a trustworthy man, who believes in respect, loyalty and most of all honestly. No drama, liars or men who are about games..Looking for someone who can hang out from time to time. who can make me laugh and who won't bring any drama or problems to my life. I'm not looking to rush into anything would prefer to build a good friendship first. Then build off of that friendship to a relationship. Also I must say I only date black men. So please don't send any crazy messages. Theirs no need to waste your time or mine.I do prefer you have ur life together.So a job is a MUSTLiving with a roommate or own placePrefer you have ur own carNot looking to be anyones suga mamaMust have a sense of humorAlso be somewhat in shape. I'm back in the gym 6 days a week. I don't expect you to look like a Greek God.I prefer clean cut men with a beautiful smile. And I do like tattoos This will be something that we both discuss.

  • Ruth

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    My interests are traveling, I just started doing that. Finding new interesting places to eat, and music. I love music all kinds. I\'m looking for someone that can share my new outlook on life.

  • Christie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hi there,I believe all things happen for a reason. I live a comfortable life and appreciate the little things life has to offer. Was married for 29 years and here I am. :-)I consider myself to be a very kind, compassionate woman who loves her family/friends and loves life. I'm an optimistic woman who always tries to find the positive in every situation. Drama is not a part of my life.The mother of three grown children, it is now time for me. It's great having adult kids because they get it.I'm content being at home but love to be active spending time outdoors. I enjoy music, dancing, going out to dinner and a play, watching sports and an occasional wine tasting. Love going for long walks and being near the water. I am not afraid to try new things as long as I feel comfortable. On my "to do" list I would like to travel more, and experience new things. I do feel we need to keep ourselves in the best possible shape we can, both in mind and body. For some it comes easy, for others it's a work in progress. The type of man I find attractive is a man with confidence, but not arrogant. It's all about the eyes and smile that get my attention. Although we are all beautiful people, there has to be a physical attraction for me as well, and I think I'm speaking for us all. A Man who takes pride in himself, is positive, can make conversation. A man who is understanding, fun and caring, but most of all can make me laugh. A good hearty belly laugh that brings tears to my eyes is the best. :-) An active man who enjoys being outdoors as well as getting out on the dance floor. Someone who loves those weekend trips or just a drive on a Sunday afternoon. A man who only is with me and does not have wandering eyes. Someone who is loyal to the woman he is with. I am not looking for a player. A gentleman who compliments his partner, opens the door and even more impressive is when they walk on the "correct" side of a woman. Would you happen to know what side that is? :-) I'm independent but also enjoy being treated like a lady. I know now what I don't want in a relationship. We're at an age where mind games should not be played, nor controlling someone's life. Be your own person! If you're looking for a one night stand than I'm not that person. I have respect for myself and expect it in return. I'm a woman, who if we click, will be supportive, trustworthy and loyal.My intent is to become friends First. Let's see if we enjoy being with each other, who knows what will happen after that!I wish you all the best. A first date....something casual, coffee, drinks....no pressure, be yourself :-)

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