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I have found that the "MEET ME" option causes so many issues. Some say they have never 'clicked' to "Meet Me" and 97% never message you. So with this, I never acknowledge anyone on this list. It just doesn't work for me.I am looking for the real relationship! No fill-ins till you meet the right one, no one nighters, and users or just out of a relationship. I know what I want and so should he!Chemistry is a must with communication and some same interest for a relationship to start. It's either there or it's not! I'm very honest and expect the same. Not interested in boys for toys or guys playing games at this stage in life. Over seven years on my own after a 20 year marriage. Doing well with life and enjoy my job. Speaking of my job..I have a great job which keeps me in the area I'm in. I am not able to relocate! So distance matters!Healthy (physical and emotionally), financially stable. Ready to meet a friend/partner for life that has the same intentions. I enjoy entertaining in my home for family and friends from wine parties to Super Bowl parties. I do enjoy the fun of being silly and laughing is a must.I don't frequent the bar scenes, however I do enjoy concerts, bands and times to get together with friends to enjoy music. Pretty diverse with music.*I am a spiritual person as that is what got me where I am today, confident, strong and comfortable in my own skin. I appreciate the small things that life has to offer. I do not 'belong' to a particular church but do enjoy attending as it seems to make for a good start for the week.I have a passion for animals. I believe I will always have a pet in my life. So much unconditional love. Not in to riding motorcycles. Nothing personal, just not interesting to me.I am a passionate person, upbeat, and a young 50-something girl. :) With this I tend to be attracted to guys that are assertive and know what they want in life. *Must be physical fit. Proportion! *Sarcastic and mean (we all have garbage in our lives that we have to deal with. It's 'how' we deal with it that makes a difference).*Current with your pics....REALLY!~FAVORITE QUOTES~~~~"Every Woman needs a manthat will ruinher lipstick andnot her mascara"~~~~~~"If someone wants to be a part of your life, they'll make an effort to be in it.So don't bother reserving a space in your heart who doesn't want to stay"~~~~~~Anonymous~~~Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. Keep it simple. Hopefully enough chemistry to make a real date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lillie

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Why am I writing this?? Men don't really get beyond the pictures do they???? :-)I love to laugh and tease and am a sarcastic brat most of the time - or at least that what my 10 ex husbands tell me (kidding, kidding - only 9 of them told me that). Ok, so someone asked me last night if I'd really been married 10 times so to set the record straight, NO - this is my weird sense of humour at work silly boys. Apparently I'm only funny to me. lolI'm independent and although I'm looking for a committed relationship, I also like time to myself. I expect that my partner will also have interests of their own and don't believe we need to do every single thing together. I'm a huge animal lover and need someone who is as well. I have 2 cats and enjoy volunteering for animal causes. I love casual men, think its sexy when you're barefoot in jeans and a T shirt and haven't shaven for a day or two. (cargo shorts that hug the bottom and ball caps are also pretty hot lol)I'm a warm and affectionate person that prefers more quiet times versus large parties etc. I'm also fiesty and passionate about what I believe in and care about. Definitely not shy about sharing my thoughts and opinions :-0Adore my family and friends, have a great job and a happy life but believe it could all be just a bit better with a partner.I have to keep a few things to myself so I can remain mysterious and fascinating...So reach out to me...... who knows what could happen?PS. Although I don't have children I totally understand that they are a priority for parents. I've dated single Dad's before and its not a problem for me at all. As I said, I'm very independent and have no issue with you spending time with your kids! I'm also happy to participate in activities with your kids if you ever think the time is right. Drink, laugh and have sex all night. Of course if you want to have sex all night on the first date you'll have to bring a girlfriend...... So what are you waiting for?? Message me --I don't bite!( but I have been known to nibble.)BTW, if you're going to Fav/Meet me why not send a note ***? What's the worst that could happen? lolAnd please no more coffee dates.....uggg....lol. How about a walk? Mini golf? Petting zoo? Walking over hot coals?? Sticking sharp objects in our eyes?? Anything?? :)

  • Martha

    Online

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a sweet, thoughtful and a smart gal. I am a girly girl and I dress the part. I can be a tomboy;. but I absolutely love being feminine. I'm a lady. Still sexy. Womanly. I love dressing nice and being stylish.I have class and I handle myself with intelligence, yet I can throw a curse when being funny. I love the news, a good debate and a sharp mind. Intelligence is stimulating and I enjoy different opinions. I am worldly. I am honest and profound. I don't play games, and I am not secretive. No drama for this girl. Life is too short. I am very positive and a good attitude is a must! No negativity, no controlling. Life is a balance~I LOVE to learn new things and enlighten myself all along this journey we call life. I love to LAUGH and I smile A LOT.. I am witty and forthright. I can be very funny. I love reading, writing and being creative. Whether it be in art (many venues) or in gardening. I am also a very good COOK. I love to create and have a hard time following a recipe without making it my own. My favorite thing is to travel. To have adventures. I love history, architecture and neighborhoods. I love mountains, lakes and beaches. The city, the coast and the country. I love exploring. Boating, hiking, horseback riding, fishing, camping, kayaking, flying - in helicopters, shopping, antiques, museums, fine dining and pizza... From rooftop restaurants to pizza, from benefits to dinner parties, from villa's to camping. Hanging at the corner pub and having a brew..- I am your girl. I am very flexible and laid back. MUSIC I love it and I love it loud!! Will listen lower for you though.. LOL. 60's 70's, 80's and more. POP, Dance, Christian, Country, Jazz and Classical - pretty much everything but RAP! A few songs. I love music - like I love books; they take you to another world~ I am very romantic. I write love poetry when moved. Candlelight, rose petals, fireplaces, under the stars, B&Bs, wine, you & I.. mmmmmm and kissing is my favorite sport. Must have chemistry kissing though. It is important. I am super affectionate and seek SAME. I love touch. I love PDA’s and I like my hand HELD. It is a beautiful connection. I want my man to be proud when he is with me. I am a very proud woman. I like being treated like YOUR lady. I have no problem being owned, as long as I can breathe and we have trust. I am respectful and trusting. I am OLD FASHIONED. It is better to get to know one another and see where it will go and build the attraction if it is there. I am a one man woman. I desire true intimacy with my man. Sharing and becoming one with you is the best high. I am very loving, affectionate and sensual. Just not promiscuous with anyone - but MY MAN! I'm his and his alone, thats all I want or need. When I love and share my life; it is you & I against the world. You are my BFF. I am your partner in crime and time. You are who lights my days and spoons with me at night. I am LOYAL and true blue.I know what I like. I know who I am. I am a woman, not a girl. Tall, handsome white men are my preference. Need a very confident, secure intelligent man. Confidence and intelligence turn me on. Handsome well leads to attraction and hopefully chemistry. I am looking forward to the next chapter in my life. To be loved, to LOVE, to have affection and a partner in life. Please make a note: if you have NO pic/No info - pls don't bother unless you send with your note. This is a dating site, if you are on it; be serious and not married and hiding. If you have bathroom or bedroom pics or no shirt pics.. I am turned off already. NO druggies/alkies/smokers. Social drinking - is FINE. FYI: I HATE winks. If you are too lazy to write me; then obviously you are not into me. A hunter seeks his prey~ My first date would be drinks - dinner if you choose! In the summer it would be outdoors.. perhaps with some live music. In the winter it would be indoors by a fireplace. Talking and learning about each other.. relaxing from some wine. Or it could be an adventure and drive in the city exploring.. depends what our similar interests are.. ?? A boat ride.. a museum? Flying? A day trip? Life is an adventure for us to share and I am always up for an adventure~ I love life and I live it!

  • Annie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Here's a bit about me, I'm single, I have 3 grown children on their own, so it's me and my 4 yr old husky. I have a good job with the government and I also take college classes almost finished :). I like doing all sorts of things, and will try ALMOST (I reserve the right to define the 'almost' at any given time lol) anything once. Still holding out to find my best friend lover someone to share the second half of our life together, do things together and of course love and passion, at the very least I'm looking for Mr. IcanTolerate (there are things you have to be able to tolerate in a relationship..you know like tooth paste cap not on, etc) I can tolerate a lot except being lied to. I love anything to do with water.“I believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” ? Blue-Eyed Devil Whatever we both decide, maybe meet for a drink somewhere in public, sit and talk and get to know one another.

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