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Vonda, 53
United States, Wisconsin, Appleton

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PREREQS: Must be a believer and have a relationship with God; pray and give thanks. Adore me; adore my kids and give me the opportunity to love on yours. Treat me and others with kindness and respect. Make me laugh!! LIVE WITH INTENTION. Also, looking for someone who has a bucket list; don't want someone with "destination disease" (feel like they have arrived and have no more goals in life).PHOTOS: Pics taken Summer ***. Yours are recent hopefully ..... outgoing, intelligent, witty, kind, generous, great mom, enthusiastic, adventurous, optimistic, genuine, high energy, creative, classy and confident. I strongly believe that "Our beliefs about ourselves are the most telling factors in determining our level of success and happiness in life."FAMILY: Son Sam ***and daughter Andie Elise ***.; (Mom passed when I was 19.)LIFESTYLE: If you treat your body like a garbage disposal, or are a couch potato we would not be a good match. I'm seeking someone to "do" things with - not just "be" with ... (One of the few blue water lakes in the world! No I wasn't a military brat - just had an adventurous spirit before getting married at 35. Met my husband in AZ and came east for a career opportunity. I've been in NJ for 8 years but really haven't been interested in dating until now. Feels really good to be emotionally free to want to date (and perhaps love) again. John, St... lots of the US. Ha. FOOD: Sushi, sushi, sushi! Oh yea, and designer salads and healthy stuff; clean food. I do enjoy going all out on holidays and special occasions with some comfort food, however, no red meat or corn.) LIBATIONS: A couple glasses of red/white wine to thwart off heart disease, yet not enough to bring on cancer. A beer or two on a hot summer day.PET PEEVES: Jealousy, people with no empathy and those who can't forgive! Oh yea, men (and women) who seem to be desperate. Lastly, people that are *** choice.GOALS: Fall in love again, publish a book ("A Museum of Memories"- I keep a list of ***things and when I accomplish one I replace it. WHAT'S ON YOUR BUCKET LIST?EDUCATION: Undergrad -; Mass Communication) and Grad - ASU (Higher Education and Counseling)WORK LIFE: Independent Career Coach, College ***, Corporate Trainer, Outplacement Specialist, Asst. Dir. Experiential Learning, Career Consultant, Training & Enjoyed all of them .... however, being a Mom is the best!LEISURE LIFE: I like to move; very rarely watch television. Took up knitting and started to read and write more to force me to chill out once in awhile.BLESSINGS: Happy, healthy "fun to be with" kids, supportive family, great friends and prayer warriors. On-Star navigation (a lifesaver), willpower, laughing with the kids, being able to provide new experiences for me and my kids. A roof over my head, food to eat. A wonderful church home. A satisfying career. Chocolate covered strawberries. And the list goes on, and on ... FAVORITE WORD: "Hope" - tatoo strategically located inside wrist over six plates from rollerblading accident. Hope heals; anticipate happiness! MUSIC: Almost everything but angry music; not a big fan of country. Contemporary, Rock/70s and 80s, Native American, enjoy live music.Thank you for reading. I hope we have some things in common ... and good luck to you! And guys, remember, a profile (and resume) is supposed to tell the reader what you have to offer, not what you want so much. So, beef yours up! Keep it real, share, laugh, open and honest. Laugh some more. See if there is some chemistry ... if not, perhaps a friendship! One can never have too many friends, can they? Meet for coffee, a quick lunch or a walk ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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