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Nell, 54
United States, California, Ventura

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About Me

I am a happy and optimistic person with a lot to offer to the right guy. I am bright, energetic, loyal and fun to be with. I have a wonderful life, I have been blessed in so many ways -- spending time with an upbeat partner and best friend would make a good thing even better! I'm quite independent (I have my own power tools and I'm not afraid to use them, lol) so I'm not looking for someone to come over and fix stuff (although if we work on projects together that would be fun). Simply looking for a great guy who wants to be appreciated for who he is.I am looking for someone kind, honest and respectful with good solid values and a sense of humor, because I believe the ability to laugh together as well as at oneself is key in any good relationship. My match is someone genuine who is true to himself and who will be to me, too. He is someone who understands that time is so precious and he doesn't want to waste it on drama or drugs. What makes a man attractive to me is his personality and sense of humor. (Being employed and having goals for your life doesn't hurt either, lol). I love the outdoors, especially in the nice weather. Love the beach, love the ocean, love to travel, love to laugh and have fun. Life is too short, let's enjoy every minute of it! I am not a sitting around kind of person, I like to keep busy and active. Don't watch much tv. Usually only listen to music in the car (like most kinds of music except heavy rock or rap)or when I'm cleaning the house. In my spare time, I enjoy going out or staying home and sharing some wine, watching a movie or sitting out on the porch on a warm evening. I also love spending time with my daughter. She keeps me young! Ideally not a super-loud place so we could hear each other talk. We will know by the time we leave if we would like to see each other again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Chinese English Vietnamese Archery Sailing
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