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Mindy, 41
United States, Louisiana, Lafayette

Offline, last seen Thu, 02 Apr 2026 14:05:32

About Me

I was on here before and met some new friends....and some very interesting people :-} For various reasons I decided to take a break from the dating world for a while.I have been told that my profile can be somewhat scary- really I am not. I love to laugh and have fun. People say my job does not fit my personality but I have never been one to fit into a "norm"I am leaving the below on here because I think it is important to put it out there and to not "false advertise" so feel free to take the chance and read- take your phone to the bathroom and use it as reading material...lolI would love to find a drama free person who loves to laugh and would rather find something upbeat/positive in surroundings than to see all the negative.I love to work out- in the gym or outside- would be incredibly nice to find someone who enjoys it as well. That being said- I love to eat....if you want skin and bones you do not want me....I am fit but my lower body is well...padded.I absolutely love my family, my job, my life.... I do not need someone to be my caretaker, emotionally or financially. I am fully capable of taking care of "mine." I would however love someone to share things with, enjoy things, experience things. I am a strong individual and need a strong counterpart. If you are controlling- we will fight, it will NOT work. If you are a push over-my interest will be gone. I would say I need someone who can be ***but thats not really true. I need someone that can be my 70 when I am at my 30 or where I can be his 70 when he is sitting at a 30. Someone to balance me.I do stand up for what I believe but am smart enough to know when to agree to disagree. I need a man who will have my back even if I am wrong but who cares enough and is strong enough to pull me to the side and let me know I need an attitude adjustment.In the past I spent way too much of my time worrying about things and figuring out how to get things done. Now I remain "responsible" but really just want to enjoy life. I choose to be happy! I want someone who chooses to be the same.I have two wonderful children, but by choice I can have no more. I love kids but if you wish to someday have one or another, please do not message me- I can't meet the criteria.If you have intermitten "sexcapades" with your baby's mama or your ex please don't message me- you need to figure out what you want and I really don't want to help you explore it. If every adventure out has to have alcohol- I am not the person for you. I don't mind a drink on occassion but I rarely consume it. I don't mind someone who likes to drink while watching a game or at the BBQ but if you always need a drink t probably won't work. I know this may sound harsh, but as I see it on many male profiles and I take no offense here goes:Everyone has own likes, dislikes- things that make them go hmmmmm....I am not sure what "POF" means by athletic build or average or a few extra pounds, but apparently many have a different idea than I do.Everyone is beautiful and wonderful in own way but...I need a man that is physically fit. Skinny does not mean fit. Tall but heavy does not mean fit. I don't need a perfectly chiseled body-I say I am a work in progress. My body is not perfect but I am happy in my own skin.I take care of myself-I want someone who cares enough about themselves and the person they are with-that means taking care of one's body and well being.If you look like I may break you I don't want to date you. If I can't put my arms around your neck I don't want to date you-this does not mean tall men, I love tall men. open to suggestions. no movies & no bars- can't talk and get to know each other. something simple to starta little spontaneous behavior is a good thing!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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