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Patricia, 47
United States, California, Santa Barbara

Offline, last seen Tue, 09 Sep 2025 04:02:50

About Me

I like to be creative, such as make jewelery ,cards, gifts and cook. I also like to take walks especially in the woods weather permitting. In the fall one of my favortie things to do is have bonfires. My friends and I get together and do that often. I don't drink, and I don't mind that others do however going to bars or watching people get drunk is not for me. My family is very important to me and I spend a lot of time with them and we get together on all of the holidays. The fall and christmas time are my favorite seasons. I have been accussed of pooping snowflakes and glitter at this time of year and oddly enough, I am ok with that. I enjoy lots of types of music but primarily new country. i am a big fan of movies and though I like to go out and do things when it is nice out I also enjoy staying home eating in, playing games or having parties especially when it is nasty out. I have a litte dog Lola, she is not a yip yip dog and has no idea she is 5 lbs. I don't dress her up in clothes or paint her nails, I let her be a dog which she likes to do.;dressing up " ha ha). I am currently going back to school to be an Occupational Therapist; I want to work with special needs kids that suffer from autism, fragile x, ausbergersect. I would also like to touch up on my sign language and eventually put that to use with deaf children. Professionally I have done the creative thing, not a lot of money in that. I have done the coorporate thing, money and not a lot of self satisfaction.. I am now working towards a career that can offer me both. As far as "what I am looking for" since that seems to be a question of he day. I want someone that I am attracted to. I want to be with someone that I laugh with all the time without trying. Someone who is more interested in having a relationship then talking about it. Honesty and kindness goes without saying. though I have never met a dishonest and mean person who actually said hey I am dishonest and mean, which kind of goes to the point.LOL. I told a friend of mine I would put his one line description of me on here, no editorials,, he said "I am refined but not too refined" I jokingly said oh so you can dress me up but can't take me anywhere huh? and he said nope. You can dress me up an take me anywhere but are not required to do so. Then I got embarrassed and now I am over this self describing exercise. : ) meet for coffee, or possibly dinner and hopefully laughter. proj

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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