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Marjorie, 49
United States, California, Santa Barbara

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I have moved over to another dating site. (the "okay" one with the cherub who uses an arrow :***Please - I prefer you find me there since the questions on that site really help me know some important things about you.Hello – I am Julie and I am embarking on a new chapter in my life. My goal is to fill the rest of my years with the joyful experiences and passion. So far, so good!**DISCLAIMER** I believe in absolute honesty – so you should know I am separated and not yet divorced due to healthcare coverage reasons. I plan to have that issue buttoned up by the end of ***so I can proceed with the technicalities of a divorce. My ex moved out well over a year ago and lives in another state. I have a great family and circle of friends who give me strength and love and happiness when I need it most. I return the favor as often as possible. I have three great daughters who mean the world to me and I am very close to each of them. My two oldest are grown and gone- mostly :***but I am raising my 15 year old full time. I stay busy with her activities, but can always find time to meet new friends and my hope is for one of those friendships to grow into the great relationship I know is out there for me.I love simple beauty like a raindrop (not all that simple, really) to elaborate and calculated expressions of beauty like a Mozart concerto. I can be pretty intense and deep when it’s right but I can also kick back with the cowboys eating peanuts out of their shells and drinking beer (minus the beer for me – I stick to sweet, girly drinks) and telling way off color jokes. And just about everything in between. I love music (most genres) and theater and comedy and even trashy TV. I’ Hillbilly Hand-fishing to Downton Abby. I just love to be entertained and am not often too snobby about it, except I don’t think I’d enjoy NASCAR or dirt bike racing…but I’ll try just about anything once.I lean to the left politically and fall into a spiritual but not at all religious category. I tend to be kind of conservative, though, in business and style, so I am kind of an oxymoron. (Emphasis on oxy – not on moron.) Mention the stupid Moron joke in your message to me to tell me you are serious enough about this process to at least read my profile completely. I am not all that interested in becoming a long term penpal here, though I think a few nice get-to-know-you messages are in order before meeting. Then maybe a meeting for coffee or something casual so we can get a feeling for whether or not there is even chemistry…which is pretty important. Then we can become penpals. :) Just kidding.And seriously, after too many surreal experiences here I need to say that I get that this is an online site, but if you want our first conversations to be centered on sex talk, just pass me by. Till then try to remember how you'd want your daughter to be treated on this site. Coffee or drinks and if things go well, maybe a comedy club. No better way to see if you have a match than to see if you share a sense of humor!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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