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Brenda, 43

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About Me

Kids are grown and live in different states....- and healthy and completely allergic to drama - of any kind.....When I'm not at work, I'm either on my computer, hanging out with friends or at the pool. I love going dancing all night my friends and just hearing the loud music - it's my release...or staying home torrenting a movie - completely ok with doing either. Also - No, I can't, won't and refuse to give anyone "discounts" or "hook 'em up" with VZ - so please don't even ask! =) I am probably one of the most "outgoing" people you will ever meet. I find & make friends wherever I am, not a problem for me at all, in any way. I am extremely loving, kind, loyal, romantic, sincere, giving, passionate...I also am very honest, and I will tell you what I think and feel. I am my own person, I know exactly who I am, what I want and what I need.Music?... I won't listen to country - simply because I feel music is suppose to make you feel good, not make you want to put a gun to your head, * What I need * #***Intelligence#2- Ambition / Aka: Employed #3- Sense of humor#4- Monogamous (If you have to research this? Please don't bother.....)#5- Sanity #6- Class & manners ***sorry- I don't do "Redneck") #7- Tolerance / Respect And Grace.....(if you don't know what these qualities mean? Please don't even bother - truly...don't.)#8- Teeth .......(apparently this has to be mentioned - no f***ing clue why- but it obviously has to be.....sry ) #9- No "Hook up's " or "DTF" messages...........SO not happening......again, please don't bother........I've come to the realization from these dating sites, that about 99.8% of people on here do NOT have their sh*t together at all.......and I since I do? That my person should also - and I'm just not in that place anymore ***I've grown, moved passed and healed and I DO have my sh*t together and am happy, drama free, and zero baggage.......and I need that in my person.............apparently that's too much to ask for anymore.....So, if you Don't have your shi* together - please keep looking.............No....seriously ....please! we'll figure it out .............

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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