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Trudy, 40

Offline, last seen Mon, 06 May 2024 02:08:25

About Me

I am a spirited, spontaneous and intelligent. No one has ever described me as shy.... I have always been a one man type gal. I have had several serious long relationships and now I have determined I must be a "bad picker". I am loyal to a fault and have high standards, I expect as much out of the person I am with as I give. If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship... On the lighter side...I love horses, music (although I can't really sing) and a good mental sparring match.If you want a pen pal, don't bother or waste my time.....I have great friends and do not want a "virtual relationship"...it irks me...If I don't respond it means I am not interested, I don't like to hurt someone's feelings...there are no good words for rejection....emailing me a second time will only get you blocked.If you only write the word Hi in your first ***, it doesn't matter how much of a match we may be, I will not respond...effort given = effort received.If your from another country please do not write me and try to convince me that a long distance relationship could work...it will never happen..just saying. I want the man to blow my mind. I am the type of girl that believes it doesn't matter what you do, it matters who you are with. I love to try new things..as opposed to revisitng the same thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dawn

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Tired of being the single girl. On a date site is not where I expected to be but busy working and raising my son full time at the moment. I have 3 great kids which my 10 yr old and 19 yr old along with my grandson live with me. My son has a great dad so not looking for a new one. He works out of town 7 months out of the year getting him for 4 days then shared custody the other months.I am looking for someone who can communicate who is looking to be in a relationship who isn't here to just hook up. I have a big heart and would like to find a guy that is ready to stop playing games. Yes have made some bad decisions and ready to make the right one.I work for 2 Electrical Companies owned by the same person. I run one and I am the Account Manager for the other company. I also do sales on the side for two companies. Most of my time away from work is spent with my family and friends either at the Tavern, Sports Bar for Football or at a friend's house. I occasionally go to the bars but not very often. I want to meet a guy who isn't lazy has his life together, if he has kids great, if he doesn't have kids that is fine but if he wants kids well unless there is adoption or a miracle can't be there for that one. He has to be affectionate, caring, giving and honest. I am down for anything as long as it's fun and I'm with great company. Be creative something fun we both enjoy to do that is laid back and fun.

  • Mallory

    Online

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I\'m an independent, I know how to cook. And I have head on my shoulders. I would like to meet someone who is genuine, mature, independent, down to earth, understanding, and who I can relate to.

  • Melody

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi I think life is what we make of it, and I want to make the most out of mine.I like to watch a good comedy or romance show, spend time with my nephews, hang out with my friends, cheer on a sports team, and do things around my house. I have a good sense of humor, I am fun to be around. I don't like racist or offensive humor. I might not always have the right words to convey what I want to say, but I try to communicate and share what's on my mind or my heart.I work in software development, but I'm not much of a techie person. I am affectionate, and enjoy being around someone who is the same. Intimacy is important to me. I can be content spending my weekend at home watching football or curled up with my kindle. I do need some social time too...could be a game of cards, a movie, trivia downtown, or sampling some new drinks (I'm experimenting to find different craft beers and wines that I like). I like to try new cool/geeky things out. city wide scavenger hunt. murder mystery dinner... stand up comedy...etc Something simple, comfortable, enjoyable. Maybe dinner at Farren's, or Pool at Jillian's (i'm horrible, but it can be fun to play)... I've actually eanted to go to the planetarium lately - maybe that would be fun...

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