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Colette, 38

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About Me

I will try and keep this short,I'm a single Mom with 2 girls. I'm doing it by myself w/ very little help from either of their dads. I have a great life, great kids, great family and a few great friends. I don't "NEED" to be in a relationship, it would be nice to start sharing this wonderful life w/someone but I don't have to. I'm very content and very independent. I'm confident and I know just what I want and I won't settle for less. I'm single because I won't just settle to have someone in my life. I want that best friend that makes me smile when I need to smile most, the one that will be by my side when I need him. A little more about me, there are 2 things I don't put up with; Lying/Liars and Laziness. I don't have the patience for either. I'm one of the most honest people you will meet. I'm the one that will say what everyone else wants to say. I take care of myself, I workout ***days a week (if you have never worked out and its obvious you have not pls do NOT send me a message) sorry but I am not attracted to couch potatoes or large men. May be blunt but I'm here to meet people not play games. With my recent move to MN i have been busy and am spending more time on my bike and with family. There's so much more I can say about me but too much to put in words and people stop reading. One last major part of my life is my family, mom, brother, sister in law, sister and I are all very close. My family has always been here for me and always will be, so the man I end up with will need to fit in comfortably. We love the outdoors and spend a lot of time outside doing anything from biking, boating, music in te park or even grilling and sitting around the fire pit.Lets move on to the guy I see myself with some day, it doesn't have to be married. I'm fine w/o all that but I'm not opposed to it either. The first thing I notice is looks, who doesn't, there HAS to be an attraction or there is nothing. Personality is extremely important, I want someone that can take a joke, that can be silly and have fun, yet serious when needed. I want to find that one that makes sparks fly, the one that eventually cares about me the same as I do them. If you are looking for a friends w/ benefits relationship or you are using this site to "get some" move along, I'm NOT interested! I will leave it *** that, I'm an open book so if you have questions just ask me. (I feel as if I need to emphasis w/ Caps since there are those out there that don't take the hints).****UPDATE****No picture odds are favorable you won't get a response! Its not so much what we do of the 1st date but w/ whom I'm with. It's nice to have someone that can speak and isn't afraid to share some personal information to show me he's interested. I can have fun doing anything so I'm up for whatever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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