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Lavonne, 54

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About Me

Some talk about a second chance, the next part of their lives or the last half. I look at it like a continuation of my beautiful life. I’ve loved, been loved and have no regrets for the life I’ve lived, just lessons for things that didn’t turn out exactly how I pictured they would. I would not change a minute of my life for that of someone else’s.I’m a good person and think of others before myself. My friends and family say that I’m kind, funny, quick witted, smart, energetic, very physically fit and a heart of gold. I’d rather be outside than inside and love the feel of the sun on my skin. I take pride in taking care of my body, workout often and have a clean and healthy diet. I enjoy cooking and experimenting in the kitchen with new receipts on what I can prepare with what this great earth has to offer us. I prefer to be on the go than sitting on the couch accomplishing nothing. I’m a doer (a planner and over achiever) and don’t believe in sitting back watching others do what I intend on doing some day.We all think or believe we know what or who we are looking for, but do we really? I believe we find that person when the time is right. In the meantime, this is what my mind thinks it needs, as my heart may say something differently. I’m looking for an honest man, a man that can be open about his feelings, and can share in the bad times just as easily the good times. I find myself more attracted to tall/athletic men which doesn’t mean he use to play sports (no big ole beer bellies). I would love to find a man that has the same energy level or close to it as I do. I enjoy cuddling on the couch to watch a great movie with a man even though I might fall asleep in his arms. It would be nice to find a best friend that I can talk to about anything and everything and he doesn’t mind if something stupid comes out of my mouth (it does happen) on occasion. I want to laugh, cry and grow older with a man that accepts me for who I am and doesn’t want to make me his dream girl; I’m already someone’s dream girl.Good luck on your search and if our paths meet, enjoy the time! Where conversation meets!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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