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Bernadine, 42
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

Okay guys, let's change a few things on here! I'm not here for a booty call, and If you are, you can hit the back button now. I am an independent woman with a job, take care of my own kids, and pay my own bills, so I don't need a man to take care of me, nor do I feel like I have to have a man to be complete, although the rite one can make it so much sweeter! With that said, I just like to have fun period, doesn't really matter doing what. I like going out at least once per weekend. I love dancing and just getting out of the house. I like going out to eat, but I also love to cook, and I'm actually pretty good at it. I still believe there has got to be men out there that believes that one woman is enough and can be faithful, although I have not found that yet. I know it sounds crazy but, if I can't have a one-woman man, then I'd rather be by myself. I don't ask anything from anybody that I can't give myself in return. I believe that you have to give respect in order to receive respect, and most of all I believe in treating people like I want to be treated.Not sure what I'm looking for on here, but hell if I can meet a few new friends that's got to be a good thing! I do tend to like my men a little younger than I am though. I would love to just have a date that flowed naturally. We could go just about anywhere as long as it was good conversation and respect involved. Romance is always a good thing though. It would be nice for a man to show that he was really looking forward to the date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Jazz
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    What about me? My friends would describe me as attractive, honest, loyal, thoughtful, smart and funny. I love to laugh! Laughter is the language of the soul! I am looking forward to finding someone who I can laugh with and who can laugh at themselves. Someone who does not take life so seriously. I enjoy being outdoors! I like hiking and biking! A weekend trip to the hill country or the beach are places I like to go. I have a great job and love what I do, but work is not everything. I am looking for someone who feels the same and takes time to have fun! I enjoy cooking and love to grill. Trying new restaurants, listening to live bands, and dancing are what I enjoy doing for fun. Mexican food and Margaritas are always great too! Going to the movies is a favorite pastime for me, but am also content to watch a DVD and snuggle on the couch. I am very easy going and can adapt easily to just about any situation, you won't find any drama here, nor am I looking for any! I am a hopeless romantic at heart! I believe in finding your soul mate. I believe in chemistry and how important that is. Building a relationship for me, starts with honesty, communication and a mutual attraction for one another. If we have this, the rest will fall into place.I have a very rich life, and I am blessed to have a wonderful family and awesome friends! I am a spiritual person, not religious. I believe with faith in God, all things are possible! If you made it this far, I would love to hear from you! Thanks for reading! Good luck with your search! The perfect first date would be meeting for coffee or wine. Talking and getting to know each other. Chemistry is very important!

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