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About Me

Hi and thanks for reading. About me: I'm a hard working, dependable, trustworthy and caring person and I don't believe in cheating. I also believe in a monogomous relationship. I have fun doing whatever and don't take things too seriously, but can be serious when need to be. Like to be goofy at times and just have a good time. I have a good job which I've been there for 21 years now.The little things in life is what matters the most. Things that you will always remember and treasure. I like to be outside, taking care of the yard, going to fests, seeing a band once in a while, sitting by a bon fire, hanging out with friends/neighbors, family and having cookouts. I can be competitive sometimes (anyone up for a game of bags or pool, lol, just kidding). I also like going camping, fishing and spending time with my son, my dogs, my family, and that special person. I'm a huge animal lover. Like to go for walks and enjoy nature. I like watching football (Bears games). I promise, I only yell at the tv, lol. I love to snuggle also and watch a movie in front of a fire :) I like listening to all different types of music pretty much. Seafood and Chinese are my favorite food, but a good steak on the grill is up there too, lol.Please have at least one picture. If you can't put a picture up on a dating website, then that's odd to me and I normally won't respond. UPDATE: If your married or already in a relationship, please do not contact me. Also, please have a job, car, license to go with the car, lol, and don't live with your parents. Sorry, but I can't believe how many guys are on here that don't have the normal things like that. First date: Maybe just meet up and have a couple drinks somewhere to see if there's a spark.Or head to a fest and walk around, listen to a band.Or just discuss what you both would like to do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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