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About Me

I guess I'll start off with the basics. I am by no means a supermodel or someone who is going to turn heads every where I go, but I'm funny and smart, pretty easy going, low maintenance and independent. So it all evens out in the wash I guess. I am medium build, nothing wrong with some curves. I have a 6 yr old son, 6 going on 16 most days. He lives with me almost full time, he goes to see his dad every other weekend. I am open to dating someone with children, but I do not plan on having any more of my own. I'm sports fan, mostly football (go Skins) and baseball (go O's.) I still follow NASCAR when I have the time, but I'll watch just about any sport if I'm at the game, the energy and atmosphere at live sporting events is awesome. Oh and then there's the tailgating :-) Also like to read when I have the time, I like books that mix a little history and some good story telling. I like medical thrillers or really anything that doesn't give itself away in the first chapter. I'm all about hanging out with friends, good times and good drinks, whether it's out at the local bar or just hanging at a friends house. Seems like that gets harder and harder to do as time goes on, everyone in my circle is settled into married life at home or they have busy lives with their kids.So what else? I have a good job, I've been there 8 years, it's more stressful here lately and a long commute, but it pays the bills and flexes my brain. I do travel often with my job, most trips are out of the country, but I would like to do more pleasure traveling if I could find a travel buddy. As for getting away, I love anywhere with a good view where I can go and relax, especially in colder climates. Being cold kinda makes you want to find a natural heating system.Um... guess that's it for now, anything else you want to know, just ask.Hmm... what to do on a 'first date.' I guess it would probably just be drinks or coffee somewhere in the evening. If it goes well, it leaves the option open for dinner and a longer 'date' but if not, then you can just have your drink and go?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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