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Effie, 61
United States, California, Santa Clarita

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Dont make me feel invisible or i will be permantly! Do it right or dont do it at all! I have a great love for God, family, dancing, animals, children and a great love and respect for the Native American! Looking for a really good guy near my age to date if there is a mutual attraction , chemistry and compatability between us. I am looking for a one woman man as I am a one man woman. Someone who is not hung up on other women past and present and is not constantly talking about other females or checking out every female he sees Or IS FLIRTING WITH SOMEONE ELSE WHILE OUT ON A DATE WITH ME ESPECIALLY A FIRST DATE....REALLY??? I like to be seen not to be made to feel invisible. If you ain't into me I ain't into you! I believe in mutual respect. It's disrespectful to talk about your X's to a lady. Say the basics and be done with it. She's not interested in hearing it! I see myself as fun loving, kind hearted and young at heart.. I don't smoke or drink. Not interested in Hunters as i am an animal lover/activist nor Alkies, Druggies or Child Molesters! I love children and I have 3 beautiful grandchildren, I love animals and I have a very spoiled chihahauh (im sorry that's one word I always misspell). I love God and believe he has the power to change all things. I love to smile and look for hope in all sitations. I enjoy dancing and music and am seeking someone to have dinner dates and dancing with. also love movies at home or movie theater, dining out, candelite dinners/music at home, riding horses, riding 4 wheelers, good conversation, reading, writting songs/poetry,acting, shopping/flea markets, walks/rides/picnics in the country. I am also ***Choctaw native American. i give my respects to,my Red brothers and sisters for their bravery and wisdom on this unjust journey they have traveled. I love to see beautiful Native American photos, watch Native American films and read about the American Indian. so if you don't like Indians, you aint no friend of mine!!! I have worked at a state facility in Magee with mentally challenged adults for the past 30 years as a Vocational Programmer and have currently retired. And no i am not bored. I am very happy lol!. I appreciate the beautiful things in life that are free to the heart. And remember The Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you!PLEASE NOTE: I am a Christian woman and AM NOT looking for sexual encounters! If you can't respect that don't waste my time or yours!on a 1st date, I would like to meet in my hometown of Magee for coke/coffee and sit and talk for awhile. Or for a dinner date at a nice restaurant in town,and good conversation. Then put the finishing touches to a great date, go to a movie or to our local VFW for band/dancing. No alcohol involved please. My passion is dancing and I am a free spirit feeling every word and beat to the music as I create movement to it. Peace and Love!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking
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