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Selena, 32
United States, California, Fairfield

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About Me

Me: goofy, intelligent, fun, open-minded girl. You might think you have me pegged from my pics, but I am a very intricate and layered individual (aren't we all?) I am currently back in school pursuing a Masters degree in Clinical Psych and Art Therapy. I am also working as a residential counselor for at-risk adolescents. It's a blast and I learn something new every day. I used to be performance artist running a Burlesque troupe in the Seattle area, but my career has taken over. I am very passionate about helping others. I also love to travel. I hope that once I graduate with my Master's, I can meld the two together. I like to spend time with my friends, listen to music (huge music junkie!), meet new people, cook new and exciting things, work on art pieces, read about philosophy and human nature, and practice Buddhism.I consider my personality to be witty, real, goofy, analytical, caring, fun, exciting, and creative. I'm on here because I'm looking for someone that will make my heart flutter. I'd like to eventually find my partner in crime - someone to share my life with. You: witty, good sense of humor (sarcasm is a must), fun, and intelligent. The men I usually go for have confidence yet aren't afraid to act goofy sometimes, and at the same time, they can sit down and talk philosophy over a nice cup of coffee. As far as looks go, I like tall, muscular guys with tattoos and beards. I'm certainly more of a personality gal, however, so don't be afraid to message if you don't have these physical qualities!In light of recent ***, I would like to state the following: Please make an effort when messaging me. Don't just say "hello" or "hi". If you do, I will not respond. Put a little bit of effort in, please. I'm also not a hooker or webcam slut, so don't bother asking - it's insulting.My first date would be a "getting to know each other" date. Probably something casual over coffee, or another beverage of choice. Then, if the night goes well, we could wing it from there and maybe go grab a bite to eat and then hit a bar or two. I'm not too uptight about dates, I prefer to go where the mood takes us! :)

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Ora from Fairfield | Woman | 51 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-61

    Hi, I am a creative person who loves to laugh and play. I have much more fun with a good friend This is the type of man who holds my interest:well educatedself motivatedloves conversation and communicatingromanticwell manneredsmiling and positivesolid characterhonest and fairrespectfulkind to family and friendspassionatewanting a monogamous relationshipsomewhere between 35 and 60loves curves ;-)believes in deep friendship with partnerIf you don't fit all of the above, please don't write to me.A first date would be most likely a long coffee or a simple meal in a very quiet restaurant or maybe a picnic in a public place. The idea is that it is intimate enough to be able to chat and chat and get to know each other but not too intimate (until we get to know each other better). It's best not to accept lifts either.A good first date involves setting a time and place and dressing appropriately, lots of talking and respecting each others viewpoints. To me, a first date is just getting to know more and it's not some big romance. It's meeting someone who may become a friend.A very successful first date could even end up with flirting, laughing across the table, and forgetting that time exists

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 22-42

    Have you ever wanted someone who would just be there for you and that you could just sit together and know things would work out? That's the place that I'm at. I'm a teacher, coach, and advisor at high school. I'm also the stability in my family with my brother and sister. I tend to put others before myself and am the friend that everyone calls for advice. I like to laugh, watch movies, read books, scrapbook, and shop. I do like to go out and have fun but find that I enjoy spending time at home since I have long days away from my house. I tend to be sarcastic and speak from my heart. I'm a go getter and pick up the slack that others leave behind. I'm strong willed and tend to keep my feelings to myself until I get to know you better. I'm looking for someone who is understanding, has a good personality, can make me laugh, and is supportive of all the things I do. I would like for him to have job (what it is doesn't matter) and be ready for a relationship.I have no preferences as long as there's a chance to get to know each other.

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  • Alyson from Fairfield | Woman | 38 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-48

    Well I guess you can say that I am a very caring responsible person that likes to have fun. I am 38 years old,trusting,patient,respectful,honest,intelligent,have a big heart. Ihave nice blue eyes,nice smile,nice dark long layered hair,2 tattoos,ears pierced. I am a single parent of 1 child,and he lives with me full time and means the world to me! I am looking for a relationship for dating to start with!I want to find my other half,someone who will take me for who I am,and my child's life. I am a good person all around who needs to find her other good half. Life is to short to be single. I want my other good half to be very caring,nice,has a big heart,nice eyes,nice smile,and thinks from the inside out,honest,trusting,tells the truth and not lie their way through life,must not be a cheater,must not play head games cause it is "IGNORANT"!,intelligent,have a good sense of humour,happy go lucky,responsible person,must not do "DRUGS",must not be "ABUSSIVE" in any way,must not be an "ALCOHOLIC" either, or a user,must be compassionate must not be a fighter,must like kids and small animals,must be friendly and outgoing! We all make mistakes and regret it,but life goes on.We've all had are ups and downs. I want my other half to be on the upper side of life not on the down side of life. In the summer time I spend most of my time outside when I am working or not,I love the summer months. In the winter months I still walk if it's not to cold. I am not a winter fan but will accept it!! It's always nice to cuddle up together undera nice warm blanket with that special someone and watch a good movie. I listen to all types of music depending on the mood I am in,except for "RAP"!! That is all I am going to say for now! So if you like what you read then send me a message and I will be willing to send you on back!! Please have a picture or 2 so I know who I am talking to!!! Thanks!!We can talk and get to know each other and decide what to do! Go for coffee,walk,movie,or whatever works,I am pretty easy going.

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