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Merle, 70
United States, California, Carlsbad

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About Me

Those who know me well would say I'm hilarious, classy, creative and very intelligent (Meyers Briggs INTJ). I have an addiction that drives me - its called "laughter" - make me laugh and I'll probably follow you (almost) anywhere (probably NOT Nebraska, Iowa, or Alabama, nor the Middle East, as example). I am a passionate woman, on both a physical and intellectual level. The former is for you to discover, the latter would include world affairs and the state of this nation, fate of our children, animals (I'm known as Ms. Doolittle), political issues, etc. I regard myself as a Centrist. I've been alone for some time (fiancee died of cancer 5 years ago) and I am truly ready, willing and able to be part of a partnership but friendship first!! The man I seek will be intelligent and have a passion for discourse; he'll laugh with me (often, even during times of intimacy), he'll share some interests and have some of his own. Like me, he'll wish for some time to himself, but want to share life on many levels. He'll be scrupulously honest, have a spirit of adventure and a passion for travel near and far. He'll appreciate good food and wine (prepared by me or in a fine restaurant). He'll like to spoil and be spoiled - and he'll be romantic, kind, loyal and real. Life goes by quickly and at this point it is rushing by - it would be marvelous to find the perfect man (for me) to share the rest of the journey - combining bucket lists and checking them off. If you are out there and reading this, get busy and write! :)UPDATE: I have moved and now living in a beautiful mountain city to the South of the US - large gorgeous home with fantastic view, simply divine weather, lots of amenities including dozens of fabulous restaurants - much to do, much to see and life is good! IF you have a sense of adventure and have been thinking about relocating to a more relaxed, cheaper cost of living and would like to explore a connection, then DO get in touch. I have found a great place and all that is missing is a terrific guy with whom to share life!note: I am flexible, not wedded to this city or area, and feet are not cast in cement - so geography should not be an issue!Given my relocation, greater planning and coordination is a requisite - but it might well be worth the bother! I love a man who can plan an interesting special date as a surprise, when that time comes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Greta from Carlsbad | Woman | 54 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-64

    Ahh......a little entertainment, a glass of spirits, and good hearted, fun loving company - just a few of my favorite things. All is good with the right person at the right time........from a relaxing evening at home to a social event, from Sushi to a good ole hot dog, from the North Georgia Mountains to those hidden or far away places. I enjoy all music ranging from Sinatra, Earth Wind and Fire, Norah Jones, to today's pop and a little country - even a little Bocelli. I love to dance and I believe laughter is good for the soul. Score brownie points if you make me laugh! I will cook because we have to eat, but if you like to cook, let's just say I will gladly do the dishes. I appreciate tasteful humor, chivalry, honesty and a kind heart. How you treat the wait staff, the elderly, children, your mother or ex-wife is a real good indicator of your character. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away". Good luck to you, and may you find the one that takes your breath away!Let's meet for coffee or lunch. No pressure. If nothing else we have made a new friend and you can never have too many of those!

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  • Ola from Carlsbad | Woman | 31 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-41

    I was born and raised in the boondocks of the bay area, spent four years dealing with orange county, loved san Diego for the past six years, and just landed myself back in the bay. Yes, I'm tall. Yes, I like tall guys. Now that thats cleared up, I love mushrooms on my pizza. Listening to rain mellows me out. I can make a mean mai tai. Bad table manners is a great way for me to hate someone. 'Please,' 'Thank you,' 'You're welcome,' and 'I'm sorry' are in my vocab and I'm not afraid to use them - neither should you. I own a ton of movies but no cable. I call my family a lot. I love to read. My dog is the cutest lil guy you'll meet. Pink is my favorite color. I love living near wine country. Cupcaking is a verb I use in daily life, and while it may cause an occasional giggle, it has yet to draw complaint. Metallica was the best concert I've seen. Margaritas and Wii = a great night. I hate the trend of leaving the stickers on baseball caps. I am and will always be a sf giants fan. I really want to get over to Ireland one day. And if you get to know me - I'm probably one of the nicest people you'll ever meet.I think first dates have the equal potential for greatness and lameness. Its all in the delivery!

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  • Meagan from Carlsbad | Woman | 41 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-51

    Hi..First of all plz dont ask what chest size i am.. Next plz dont ask if i give bjs.. Next dont assume because i am a bbw its a easy lay..Just wanna let people know i am not perfect and never will but i can honestly say i accept people for who they are.All i ask anyone is to accecpt for me and id cant or wont plz dont waste my time or yours.. How is everyone. Hope all is well. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile.. Am sure you have seem my pictures I am a bbw and no it dont mean i am a big breasted women, it means i am a big beautiful women.. If you want to get to know me great all i am going to ask is for you to accept me for me, just like I would you.. I am not perfect.. Well no one in this world is perfect.. People may think they are..Thanks for reading.. Happy fishing hope you find what you are looking for..A walk around Bowring Park, feeding the ducks, just chattin, getting to know each other and if all goes will then a quiet dinner and maybe a movies..

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