Grenville, 41
            
            
                            Online
                        About Me
                            Me in a nut shell, I'm not here for sex or to "hook up" I'm looking for the woman that I can have an intimate connection with,don'tat goes deeper than anything physical. I gave up cigarettes last year (October), but I still have the "occasional" cigar. Thus, I am an "occasional" smoker. So, if you are a single mom that already has kids but are open to having more or are looking for the right man to have children with, let me know. If you want to get to know me, shoot me a message or hit me up with a chat. I gave my younger years to the military and never raised any children, now it's time for me to have a family. If you are looking for a "sugar daddy", are not responsible enough to take care of yourself &/or kids, use drugs, have a criminal record, or find yourself broke all the time - then keep looking cause I'm not interested. Ladies, I obviously don't understand you. You say you want a real man that is caring, compassionate, romantic, honest, faithful, fun, educated, & knows what he wants in life. Someone who loves kids & doesn't play emotional games. Someone who knows how to love you, respect you, & treat you the way you should be treated (as a friend, a companion, & a lover). I work, go to school, live alone, pay my bills, have a car (& a motorcycle), don't do drugs, & do my best to take care of myself. I'm right here & have been for over a year now. Yet every day you ladies pass me by. Is it because I'm 40? Then obviously you are too closed minded on the age aspect of things & don't deserve a good guy like me anyway. “Do or do not... there is no try" ~ Yoda First dates need to be simple, yet have enough diversity for people to see different facits of your personality. Go kayaking then have dinner. Have a nice lunch then go horse back riding. Avoid the bars...getting chit faced on a first date is tacky and rude. Movies should also wait; you can't get to know someone just sitting in the dark and focusing all your attention on the huge screen in front of you. Ideally, a fresh sea food lunch, followed by a wine tasting tour, and then a casual walk someplace where the two of you can watch the sun set sounds like a very nice, low stress, low distraction, get to know someone, kind of date.
                                        PERSONAL INFORMATION
                
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Looking for
                        woman
                     
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Relationship
                            Divorced
                         
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Have kids
                            No
                         
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Wants kids
                            Yes
                         
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Ethnicity
                            Caucasian
                         
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Faith
                            Christian
                         
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Body type
                            Average
                         
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Height
                            5'10"
                         
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Eye color
                            Blue
                         
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Smoke
                            Yes, socially
                         
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Drink
                            Yes, socially
                         
                                    
                                        INTERESTS