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Bennie, 40

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I'm a country life type born and raised on the family farm. So country is my life style that's laid back with no pressure.i work hard at the farm but eqaully at my regular job to. I can be comfortable in the city to and go from a T-shirt to tux in 15minutes for any event of the day. I've been exposed to culture and education so I'm not stuck on the farm or sticks like you may think..so don't judge me by what you see here only as I put this together quick..Lol! I balance and give all i can each day to my family and friends and you will be treated the same as my kids cause i dont like to put numbers on people but family first so yes thats you to. I have two girls 16 and 12 who are my lil world and the best but I need them to have a positive female influence for them...I'm putting it nice for their moms lacking.! I like the outdoors and animals and anything that has wheels and a motor I'm into. Lol. Sorry had my first car at 6 and have a few nice ones put away so you'll have that and a girl into cars etc is a plus but if not its OK but I like to go for icecream and I want to share what I worked hard at with someone and who will enjoy the time and pride I have in taking her places nomatter what we do!! I'm into anything fun You like and very flexible but also like snuggle/fun time by a fire inside or outside wrapped in a favorite blanket and like our time to be special. I'm so easy to get along with and all my friends and family say I'm the sweetest plus kids all like me a lot and I've adopted in a country way a few as an uncle or whatever they want me as Lol!! So if you have kids great but don't be upset when they want to spend a bunch of time with me..Lol. Guess cause I had a bad childhood kids make a big deal to me. Ask what you like I'm an open person and hide nothing. So yes all my people are waiting for me to find that one girl who's willing to take a chance and see how lucky she just might be. I'm way more than what you see or read here and keep my morals and values with class far above most so that one day I'll have a gorgeous girl by my side... ;-) yes you'll get all the lil things and be spoiled in my own way that you didn't think existed anymore..Lol well I'm very determined and failure is not an option for me so I work hard at my relationship just the same. OK ask what you want as I said earlier!! PS.. no hook ups girls..sorry! must have a meaningful relationship first. Plus no drama here!!! Oh!!!!! One more thing...I want the girl of my dreams to let me show you true love and for you to let me take care of you like what should have always been..just let me show you and then you'll be amazed!!! So take the first step as I'm ready to settle into a fully committed loving relationship that can make you truly happy in any way possible. I don't dissapoint and will always tell you how cute and love u everyday many many times...Lol;-) so I want my princess with me today cause I can't Waite for us to be together forever!! Ty ;-) Lets pick together so its fair for each other and start things fresh and fun...but I'll go or do almost anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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