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Alured, 38

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About Me

I'm 37 years old but still young at heart. I have friends with ages from early 20's to mid 50's and pretty much get along with everyone. I moved to NC for an engineering job that is pretty demanding and requires a lot of time. Therefore, I haven't dated much in the past 6 years. So, I'm trying this out in an attempt to meet some new people and expand on my wealth of friends. A little about me: A lot of my friends would say I am kind, generous, loving, forgiving, honest (almost to a fault), fun to be around, level headed, clean, organized (a little too much for some) and overall a great friend to have. I take my honor very seriously. I believe it is the only thing in life that can not be taken away from us, only given away by making poor choices. I have a stressful but good job. I make a decent living but am not rich by any means. I own my own home and enjoy doing yard work and keeping it clean. I also enjoy playing golf even though I am no good at it. I enjoy watching movies. I love everything zombie (i.e. - I love "The Walking Dead"). I love all kinds of music (everything from Motown, Rock, Heavy Metal, Alternative, New Age, R&B, Rap, Hip Hop, Classic Country, etc.). I'm not huge into sports but love to watch college football, especially if its my Gamecocks ("Go****!!!") I like to cook. Every now and then I will cook something extravagant, but I'm mostly a steak and potatoes kind of guy. I am not religious but I am tolerant of others beliefs. Politically, I would be considered a liberal, however I have views that cross the conservative aisle. My parents would hate to hear me say that because they are ex-hippies gone yuppie and still consider themselves political activists. If you absolutely hate Obama, we could still hang out but I could never take you home to meet my mother. I am an only child but not a mama's boy. On the other hand, if you mess with my mama, you better watch out. I like children but have never had much exposer to them. I have had cousins and nesses that always seem to love me (I don't know why). I just don't feel I have the space ready for one yet. I guess that is more than a little about me. If there is anything else you would like to know just ask. I am very open about my life and my past.What I am looking for: It has been a long time since I have dated and I am not looking to hook up with someone fast. I think that people should become friends before becoming intimate. I would like to meet a girl with similar interests, morals and views on life. I don't mind If a girl has children, but I wouldn't want to meet the children until I am sure that there is a future relationship worth pursuing. I am not all about looks but feel there needs to be a mutual physical attraction. Although I am looking for a long term relationship that will last, I am not opposed to meeting people that will just make good friends. If any of this seems to be what you are looking for in a partner or even just a friend please don't hesitate to send me a text. I have no problems with just texting for a while without meeting. Sometimes that's the best way to get to know someone. First date should probably be meeting for drinks and good conversation. If there is chemistry, follow with dinner and going out on the town.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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