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Ultan, 27
United States, Pennsylvania, York Haven

Offline, last seen Sat, 06 Sep 2025 09:53:13

About Me

So preface:Most likely not putting any more effort or time into this site. Seems people aren't what they make themselves out to be for the most part. Not to mention the mismatches with people who do express interest, coupled with that interest always fading. I'm a conversationalist, and that characteristic can't shine through virtual mediums. So I'm a little disappointed, but it happens. If you message me, cool. I might respond. But the hunt on here is over for me. I'll leave this area for life to decide how things play out. I enjoy the new job and I'm slowly rebuilding my foundation out here.I'm incredibly honest (sometimes brutally). I have a deeply rooted passion for people and an appreciation for even the smallest things in life. I view sites like this as a tool to at least meet people with similar interests. Yes, I'm obviously looking for a relationship, but it's not like shopping at Walmart. It takes time to form bonds and communication to emotionally and intellectually connect with the right person.You would get serious bonus points if we meet and you're wearing a clearance sticker though =D So you want to get to know me? Awesome. Let's do something small where we can talk. I'm a big conversationalist. Starbucks, a little bit of coffee, my treat. Get what you want in Venti (Trente if they offer it). Chivalry isn't dead, but it certainly is a little guarded. Worst case scenario:- We have a drink or two, realize conversation was fun, but not quite aligned in what we seek. You're out time and a little bit of gas getting to Starbucks.Best case scenario:- We talk, captivate one another, and set up a follow up to something fun and agreed on (or whatever you crazy kids do for second dates). I have to know you have substance and are defined in your own life before anything else. It's coffee. I'm not going to complain being out $***$10 per drink in exchange for good conversation.Second date ideas:PaintballingRock climbingIndoor Trampoline rooms of justiceConsKink events (play parties, munches, demos, etc.)Old fashioned dinner and a movieBars/clubs (not usual, as I don't frequent them)I have fun regardless of what it is.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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