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Ichabod, 29
United States, Oregon, Ashland

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About Me

I'm not really a either/or, hot/cold type of guy. Sometimes I develop feelings toward a guy. Sometimes I don't. Sometimes they develop. As bad as I hate to say this, you're really taking a gamble if you fall in love quickly by messaging me. I won't guarantee that I can do the same.I'm looking for guys ***. I'll entertain some exceptions. I'm not a Men's Health cover model and don't expect anyone else to be but I am fitness oriented and don't want that to be a point of contention in a potential relationship. I keep my workouts to the point. The gym is not my place to hang out. I hate sports. Chalk that up to a lifetime of bad experiences with them.I'm bookish and love classical music. I'm not going to turn this into a who's who just to show off my reading lists and Ipod playlists. Suffice it to say I read a lot of dense material and respected authors and I have put out a lot of money for classical music concerts in the last several years. I've also traveled on a whim out of state (by plane for a single night) to see a particular show. I don't necessarily won't to date someone exactly like me although some common interests help. It takes me a while to warm up to new people especially groups of people. I fidget and appear silent and uncomfortable but people who know me well know that I eventually turn around and become more sociable. I have a threshold for social situations.If you have a lot of prejudice against Blacks, Asians, effeminate-acting gay men, trans people, or (god help you) if you're a misogynist - I'm definitely not the guy for you. If you avoid anything "gay" (gay pride, gay clubs, gay activism) just because it's "gay" then I'm probably not the guy for you. It ain't my whole life but it's still a part of it. I prefer to keep it simple and have dinner, coffee, or something like that.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical English Indian Korean Mexican Turkish Snowboarding
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