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Lee, 45

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About Me

.lets see... I have been here before... many times sadly... not sure if it is that I am picky or just unlucky thus far... but thought I would give it another go... They say there is someone for everyone so I guess I am hoping to prove that...I feel I am misunderstood.. maybe going about all this the wrong way... Here is a few things I have learned about dating in this day and age:1) absolutely nothing!! I have learned nothing.. I have morals.. standards... and yes expectations (being I expect respect and you will get it in return)I certainly don't think that everyone I meet on here is "the one".. I don't fall in love quickly or easily.. I believe that takes time.. lots of time.. I will be open and honest from the begining and I think that scares a lot of men.. if I like you I will tell you... I will not leave you guessing.. I may not be the prettist woman or the thinnist woman on here but I am me.. and that is all I can be.. I am too old and tired to play high school games.. and I refuse to fall into those sort of relationships.. I will not stand to be second or third choice or be the 'stand by girl'.. I am too good for that.. I am passionate.. caring.. loving and respectful when it comes to relationships.. I am a bigger girl... and I know there is someone out there that can see the inner beauty and accept me for who I am...I want to find someone to share life experiences with... to share all the good and the bad times.. to be there for him when he needs me.. and have him there for me when I need him.. to give him his space or time with his friends and I enjoy my time with my friends.. someone to laugh with.. cry with.. have those little arguments and the best make ups ever.. not sure if I see marriage in my future... been there done that.. but would leave the door open to it if my partner felt strong about it.. I have strong convictions... I believe that hatred and war is a state of mind and can be halted with just making it happen... I have my faith but do not feel I need to be in a church to practice it... and karma of course.. my political views.. well lets not go there as I am in a good mood right now... I love animals and children and feel we need to speak up for them and fight against cruelty and bullying.. I cry at weddings.. and some Christmas commericals... I have feelings and can be hurt.. have been hurt.. but than again we all have been I am sure... so putting myself out there is the hardest thing I have done.. I am tired.. tired of going to social events by myself.. to movies by myself... dinners by myself... vacations by myself.. and so on ... I think you get the point.. Ok.. getting tired and it late anyway... I will write more later... cheers.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Awilda

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to be adventurous, but not dumb. I absolutely love to dance, but I\'m not looking to party every night or weekend. If you’re a hangouter, we’ll do along, looking forward to your message.

  • Leann

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    UPDATE>>>>-)You know,it would probably save us all a lot of wasted hours on dates if when we first meet,we kissed *** going through a whole bunch of hrs on a date only to find out that we're not attracted to one another.If when we meet we DON'T want to kiss each other..Game over...end date...lol...Just a goofy thought ;-).I am single have 2 boys and run a small organic farm. I enjoy anything to do with the out doors.I live simply,modestly and frugally.I love live music,concerts,festivals and camping.I want someone who wants to be outside a lot.I am very easy going and drama free...I have found that what interests me most are the men that are super kind,patient,sweet looking/acting(bad boys need not message me) and truly are interested in getting to know me. I am a good person and I'm just looking for what most everyone else is looking for .Willing to travel to find it.I have come to this conclusion about how I would date in the future.I have children,but you will probably never meet them unless we become something serious,meaning we will have had to be dating for quite some time..I just feel it's very irresponsible to introduce your kids to someone who may not be there long term and I have just about every weekend free so there is no need to involve them.I enjoy a vast amount of activities and I am open to just about anything except sitting in front of the tube watching tv for days on end and watching someone play video games for the same amt of time.Surely there are better things to do that don't involve electronics and I love it all.I am not a couch potato and am very active.I would love to meet someone who has the same thoughts about these things as I do.I found this excerpt online somewhere and had I not read it,I may not have ever "got back in the game".I think it pertains to most of us on here so I'll share :-)The heart is not safeLove is not safe. Relationships are not safe. It is not safe to give your heart to anyone or anything. But, you didn't come here to be safe. You came here to live and love. You can not live and love and protect your heart at the same time.If you truly love animals and fill your life with pets, you will have to watch them grow old, get sick and die. If you have children, you will have to watch them be hurt by others, fail at some things and perhaps they will get sick and die before you do too.People leave, break promises, fall short of your expectations of them, lie, cheat and are often weak. And even if they behave perfectly, it may hurt you that they go off to work without you each day. Friends sometimes move far away. Life cant be controlled. The ego is very easily disappointed and disturbed by change. The problem is not that people are so full of character defects nor that life is so unpredictable. The problem is that so many humans think they can protect their hearts and still love. But this is impossible.Love is about taking down the fences from around your heart knowing that not only is it possible that you may be hurt- its a guarantee. This tiny little protected "self" is definitely going to be hurt no matter what. Even if you pull back and put yourself on the bench- still, there will be a long dull ache from withholding from what you came here to do.Love is the greatest sport in the world and like most sports you're gonna get dirty and have some injuries. But, what fun to get off the bench and get into the game!! Remember, you didn't come here to be an observer. You didn't come her to be in the audience watching from the stands. You came here to play. The only thing that's different is that in this game there is no competition, no winners, no losers. This sport is about exercising the heart- the love muscle.So, sometimes you may need a little time out to sit on the bench and get your knees wrapped and have a few sips of water and catch your breath. That's cool. But, don't sit too long. Don't let yourself get stiff and cranky. Get back out there and feel the thrilling rush of playing. The little self is never safe, but the real you can never be hurt.. I am easy going...someplace public.

  • Meredith

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello Im Sue I live outskirts of Moncton, I am more of a country girl I like the woods or small town living . I love my family and I spend a lot of time with them when can. I have always been a hard working and honest person. I live a simple life and like possitive people around me. We all have a past and im sure we have all made a few mistakes along the way in life. im not a judgemental person I take people for who they are. despite what some people may think we are not perfect we are human... I enjoy the outdoors biking, fishing. swimming. camping. I enjoy going out for a drive looking at the scenery, getting out of the car and walking in the woods taking photos.....lol ..Thanks for reading the profile,and I hope you all find whatever it is your looking for wether it be on meetville or not. .. A drive to the Warf, Coffee. A drink. A walk. im open minded so whatever comes to mind;

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