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Jesica, 43
United States, Kansas, Oakley

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When I'm not working i am usually at home with my 2 kids, 11 and 13. I have a lot of interests and a lot of things I would like to do, but it's not fun to do things alone all the time. I've been on this site before and obviously been unsuccessful. I think a lot of the reason is because there's too many people on here that claim they are looking for something real when they're not. I love to play games but not the kind involving someones feelings. I don't take a lot of things in life seriously but when it comes to respect, consideration and honesty, I take those things very seriously. I've been told by people that I'm funny and attractive and have a good head on my shoulders. I'm not big on selling myself because in my eyes I am who I am. I'm a person just like anyone else. I deserve to have that something special with someone. Someone to grow old with, laugh with, joke with....I like all kinds of music and I can dance to almost anything. I don't like the bar scene much but I don't mind going with someone every once in a while and playing some pool and just having fun. I'm more of a homebody but I do like to get out every once in a while. I'm hoping to be able to buy a house within the next ***years, I think it would be nice to experience that dream with somebody.I know what I want and what I want out of life. If you decide to contact me, I would rather message here a very short time and then if things seem okay move on to an actual conversation. I don't like texting all the time because I think thats one of the biggest wastes of time when it comes to these sites. I'd rather see if we have anything in common and see if there's any chemistry before wasting time texting for weeks only to find out there;s really no spark anyway.Anyway, if you're looking for a real, genuine down to earth woman that likes to laugh and enjoy life and just go with the flow send me a message. And please try to make it longer than one word :)I just want to live a simple life and be happy so if you're looking for a one-nighter or play head games please move on. Also check your drama at the door! Thank you and happy fishing :PLet me also add real quick that I am looking for a relationship, and although I understand that people need to meet and date to see if there is chemistry and compatibility, I am not looking to date random people. I think one usually knows after the first one or 2 dates if there is anything there. I'm looking for someone to hang IN with sometimes too, as well as going out on dates. There's more to life than spending money. To be determined...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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