SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Cate
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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
So about me........Basically I am a simple girl looking for a simple kind of guy. I am 37 years old and at this stage in life I am not looking for any kind of drama nor am I looking to play any type of games. I am not looking for a fling and do not sleep around (if your looking for a booty call please do not message me. I wont waste your time, please do not waste mine). I tend to rush into relationships and ALWAYS wear my heart on my sleeve. I guess that's where I go wrong. My new tactic this time around is to take things slow and enjoy life. I have a huge close family that sticks together. We may argue and fight but in the end we are always there for one another and that is what counts the most. I have learned this lesson the hard way loosing my father a year ago not on speaking terms. I never got to say goodbye to my father and tell him for the last time I truly did love him despite our differences. Lesson learned... life is too short to be unhappy and to fight with the ones that mean the most to you! I feel I have a lot to offer that special someone. I am loyal, trustworthy, faithful, honest and have a lot of love to give ( you can be the judge of that). I am not looking for anyone for their money (I have my own) and not their looks (I have dated gorgeous men). I have a good job, a beautiful 4 bedroom house in a good school district, therefore, I am already established. I do not like to be misled nor do I cheat and expect that in return. I am a mother of a wonderful 11 year old boy (his father lives far away so there are no complications, we have maintain a good friendship). I am not looking for someone to be his "daddy" however, he would have to take a liking to my son as much as he would like me. "My ideal mate" would take my son under his wing and show him the role he would have to play being a male and grow up to be a GOOD MAN. Take him to games, go outside and toss a football around to each other, take him fishing, coach any sport he wants to join...etc.What I am looking for in a relationship is basically to be happy....to fall in love and anticipate coming home after work to a loving family. Cook dinner while I help my son/kids (if you have children) do homework and wait for the love of my life to come home and greet him with a huge hug and kiss to show him how much I missed him through out the day. I want to have family time until its time for the children to go to bed then have adult time snuggling up conversing on how our day was. I want to take family vacations and travel. Go on weekend getaways with my husband (yes I would like to get married one day, never been). I want to have friends over and have cookouts.......Sunday football gatherings if that's what your into.....Christmas parties etc. What I am looking for in a man would simply have the same outlook on life as I. Same characteristics and dedication in taking care of his family and making us come first.You will see pictures of me above both thin and heavy. I lost myself in my last relationship and gained unwanted weight which I am now working on in loosing and gaining my self confidence back. Just to be clear I am still heavy trying to get back to what I looked like.So basically, I just want to be in love and happy. I know it seems far fetched in this day, but I know it can be done if both our minds and hearts are in it.By the way.....I am not perfect by no means, I do have my flaws, But hey are their any "Perfect" people out there?I do wish everyone luck in finding "The One"!
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Latina
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
No one wants to be second best. If u know me, then u know I've made lots of less than wise choices in my life. And although I could have been smarter over the years....I see my life for what it is, one hell of a ride that got me where I am today. A ride that, although I still ache from the bumpy road, I wouldn't have missed for anything. There have been many pit stops along the way that left me tattered and torn...but also made it possible for my 3 saving graces to be born.I often picked the wrong traveling companions...that left me on the side of the road.....but the things they left behind more than made up for their lack of character. When I feel that God or life has cheated me in some karmic way...I force myself to look for the good things that can be taken from the bad. My children, my strength(that the Lord no doubt has given me to endure)and the long over due lesson I finally have learned.....I deserve better than second best, just as everyone does....guess I had to travel the road to get me to the place I am now. Spontanious get to know each other in a relaxed pressure free setting.
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Benedicta
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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
I am looking for someone to make that transition a little more fun. If I happen to find love in the process, then my expectations will have been pleasantly exceeded.I want to go on dates. I want you to introduce me to this city of yours and let me see why it is going to be a great place to live. Take me to your favourite places.I enjoy travelling and have been living/working in Europe for the last 4 years having a great time. I am hoping to find someone to share some adventures with. Where would you like to go???? It would be great if I met someone who loves to ski or snowboard. I love ski vacations.I love going to see live music...take me to see some of your fave's, and I'll take you to see mine. Let's check out something new together.I like to enjoy a quiet bottle of wine for two as well as a pint of beer in a local pub. I am totally over vodka drinks in nightclubs and have been for a decade.I am fun, social, active, silly, playful, affectionate, hard working and independent.I can also be lazy. I like to spend evenings snuggled on the couch with a book, the tv, or a loved one. I sometimes let the dishes sit overnight. I rarely make my bed. With the right guy, I would happily spend an entire Sunday in that bed. A first date should be fun. It should provide an opportunity to look at each other, talk, and laugh. Happy hour perhaps? Meet for an early evening drink and take it from there. I like spontaneity. After an exchange online, we'll know better what we will want to do with each other.