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Shanda, 38

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About Me

I love double entendre, goat cheese, wine, soup and crackers, animals, sunny days with a breeze, dark days with a storm, wit, humor with intelligence, strength with compassion, loyalty and honesty. I have a lot of great friends who make me laugh until I snort, have my back at all times, and love me despite my flaws (like the snorting when I laugh). I am looking for a man that can be one of those great friends and more. As for me, I am stable, humorous, a bit quirky at times, compassionate, empathetic, sympathetic, a good listener, laid back (really!), and enjoy people who add to my life (don’t suck my soul). I enjoy relaxing with some friends and drink, nothing too fancy. I have never been into the clubs…not an age thing, just a me thing. I try to stay healthy, and don’t spend much time on the couch; my mind tends to race otherwise. My musical tastes are across the board, but chances are it is melodic and soothing to me or has a good beat I can dance to ;). I am not clingy and really not looking for a clinger, however, I want to know you are interested in getting to know me and I will reciprocate appropriately. If I get the sense that we are not on the same page, I am fine with ending it. Generally like to keep it short and low-key...coffee or a drink. These encounters are usually enough time to see if a conversation can be held and if there is any chemistry. Hopefully, if things go well the dates will increase in length!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lakiesha

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm charming and appreciate being charmed. (Look me in the eyes and engage with me.. smile.. make me laugh..make me comfortable.. Make me fall for u ;) I work hard, but have a flexible schedule..love my career. I am a few extra pounds and a little more, no bikinis for me :/ ever.I like a guy that is big and tall, so I feel small... But ultimately I'm looking for someone to connect with.. On a friend level and maybe more eventually. I am not looking to get married, but i would like to be in a committed relationship with the right person ;)I can ASSURE u that I will NOT sleep with anyone casually.. So pass me up for sure if that's why u stopped here* *also I don't like loud or obnoxious guys who do stupid stuff for attention(such a turn off !!)For me to 'date' someone w no car isn't an option... U have to be able to come see me!! I want someone who is completely financially able to take care of themselves.. If we decide to meet for a date, please take pride in how u present yourself..I can tell if u dont and its insulting when i just spent an hour or more trying to look my best for u...Be clean... I am attracted to a clean guy w/ nice jeans and a tshirt (hat) .. not into guys who dress better than me!! Not judging. Im pretty simple, really..I'm from the south and appreciate the mind set of my fellow country boys.If u are interested in getting to know me,Message me :) **i don't bite. Usually. I will probably be nervous so a hug and a drink would be a nice start... Hugs. Flirting.!!! ;-) nice charming CLEAN smile..no dirty/rotten teeth(I had to say it)Positive attitude a must. Optimistic ;)Checking your phone occasionally is normal.. I cant stand when Someone is in a serious relationship w their phone... ESPECIALLY if we are spending time together. Focus on me please. Respect. Public place.

  • Katherine

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a giver. Will give you shirt off my back if you need it more than I do. I like to laugh and have fun. I am outgoing, like to be center of attention. I am easy going, " peace maker". Hate arguments. Don't like tention. Direct and compedetive. I make decisions easy. My favorite thing to do - people watch. I love kids.Hey guys. After first day here I want to make more clear for you. I am not here to play games, get laid, or have nice meal. I want to meet the one. I am looking for a chemistry, not just for a chemical reaction. Be respectful. I don't talk "; and would really appreciate if you wouldn't either. If you like to call your woman a "****", don't even bother talk to me. Please, don't waste my time and your efforts if you here just to play. I am ready to go forward and try one more time; if you are not - don't bother. And, yes, one more thing, I don't date married man. I am honest. I don't play games. I will tell you if I am interested in you or not. I know who I am and who I am looking for. Please be your self and don't waste yours or my time with a pretending to be someone else.

  • Aubree

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am independent, intelligent, and loyal. I am looking for someone who compliments my life and I theirs. I am a sucker for smart, funny and nice guys. :)I love the beach, sports, animals and reading. I like museums and art, but don't go very often. I buy the NYS empire pass every year and go to the beach every chance I get. I like my job, but it is more a means to support rather than something I love. I don't like to work overtime and try to keep a personal life. I am close with my mom, but don't have a big family. Something low key where we can meet up and see if we click.

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