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Shaelyn, 40

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About Me

I am the first to admit not sure exactly what I want in a relationship. I truely believe if it is there you just know. Or maybe part of me is a hopeless romantic. Communication is key to any relationship. Its okay for guys to show emotion. There is a time to be a tough guy and a time to be a talker. And I do believe in soul mates. Except he hasn't done anything great in awhile. So I am looking into someone funnier. Laughter is the best medicine. Okay at least know who he is. I would advise not to listen to him on a treadmill. I have an amazing 10 year old daughter. And a 20 year old daughter in College. They make me smile. Rest assured we are not looking for a daddy. I think coffee is a food group. Great things can happen over coffee. I love cooking 9 times out of 10 I would rather cook. If I like you I will make lasagna. If you have drama in your life I am not the girl for you. I live a life with as little drama as possible. I will share interests in music but you cant laugh. There are a few bands I love and my friends like to tease. But I cant help it I love these bands. Not to be negative I am almost convinced there are no more great guys out there. Or I keep finding the ones that want to act the age of their inner child 100% of the time. FYI not to be shallow but if you are under 5,9 probably wont work. Coffee or something that comes in a cup is a great start. In order to move on there must be chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Aniyah

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm a busy girl...just moved here from FloridaI like a guy with dark hair...* Clean cut* Can make me laugh* Intelligent* Passionate / Romantic* Likes sports* Spontaneous* Knows what he wants and driven to GET IT*** I know what I want in a guy and won't settle for less... By the way...If you don't look like your photosYou get to buy the drinks until you do...LOL

  • Xuan

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    If you're reading after THAT tagline, then good - you have a sense of humor about online dating!Let's get this part out of the way, right up front! I'm a BBW. If that's a problem for you, that's really okay. For every one of you that can't handle that, there's another one who can't wait to get his hands on me, so please don't think I'm in denial or chasing anything. I'm a woman, honey. If I want to just have a one-nighter, I can get that anywhere, anytime...but I think we all know there's nothing empowering about pretending to be "sexually liberated" without love and respect that is meant to go along with that. We're not in our 20's anymore, so let's get real about what's real, shall we? I want more than that, and that's why I'm here. On that note, occasionally, I might compliment a profile that I find interesting, funny and/or well written - please take it as just that...a compliment.You're looking at a self-sufficient, but old-fashioned woman. What I'm looking for is someone who's ready to become best friends, and eventually lovers too - for life. I would love a guy who makes me laugh, and has a solid faith in God. I'd like to meet a real gentleman, who will open doors, listen to my words, and bring laughter, loyalty and honesty to the table. I'm attracted to black men pretty much exclusively, and I love men who love to LAUGH! I don't have kids, but I love them, and I'm open to whatever the Lord has in store for my future.I'm extremely honest, and everything you've read here is the absolute truth. I have no ulterior motives, and I have no poker face, so I don't bother lying. I'm passionate, hilarious, creative and loyal to a fault, and I'm just as vulnerable as many women are to being hurt, but I CHOOSE to be hopeful that there are still a few good ones left. I hope you're out there. It's been a long journey... Someplace where we can have a conversation...Coffee, a quiet dinner...whatever works for good conversation and lots of laughs!

  • Hebe

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm 39, (I don' feel it, but I am). I decided to go back to school full time last year and I'm glad I did. It's fun and challenging all at the same time. I live downtown and love it. I'm all about the tattoos.... So if u have 'em, let's compare! LOLIf you like a smart ass....well, that's me.I have 2 wonderful children, a 6 yr old and a 16 yr old. They have a dad and we are not looking for a replacement. There is no drama with me and their father. I am a confident, financially responsible, full time student that is just looking to meet my best friend. I know everyone says that but, I believe friends make the best partners in crime. :) My choice of music is all over the map......I love those guys), to rap and hands down, my favorite is Atmosphere!!! Movies: Clerks, Mall Rats and Jay and Silent Bob, Almost Famous, Super Bad, Old School, and best movie of all time:Half Baked. Favorite TV show....American Dad all the way!!!!Looking for a long term relationship but I am not trying to rush into anything. My main goal is to find someone who gets my humor, is smart and witty, motivated, likes to live life and laugh with me or at me!!! LOL :) This is such a stupid question!!!! Lol. I'm sure we can figure it out later!

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