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About Me

If you're reading after THAT tagline, then good - you have a sense of humor about online dating!Let's get this part out of the way, right up front! I'm a BBW. If that's a problem for you, that's really okay. For every one of you that can't handle that, there's another one who can't wait to get his hands on me, so please don't think I'm in denial or chasing anything. I'm a woman, honey. If I want to just have a one-nighter, I can get that anywhere, anytime...but I think we all know there's nothing empowering about pretending to be "sexually liberated" without love and respect that is meant to go along with that. We're not in our 20's anymore, so let's get real about what's real, shall we? I want more than that, and that's why I'm here. On that note, occasionally, I might compliment a profile that I find interesting, funny and/or well written - please take it as just that...a compliment.You're looking at a self-sufficient, but old-fashioned woman. What I'm looking for is someone who's ready to become best friends, and eventually lovers too - for life. I would love a guy who makes me laugh, and has a solid faith in God. I'd like to meet a real gentleman, who will open doors, listen to my words, and bring laughter, loyalty and honesty to the table. I'm attracted to black men pretty much exclusively, and I love men who love to LAUGH! I don't have kids, but I love them, and I'm open to whatever the Lord has in store for my future.I'm extremely honest, and everything you've read here is the absolute truth. I have no ulterior motives, and I have no poker face, so I don't bother lying. I'm passionate, hilarious, creative and loyal to a fault, and I'm just as vulnerable as many women are to being hurt, but I CHOOSE to be hopeful that there are still a few good ones left. I hope you're out there. It's been a long journey... Someplace where we can have a conversation...Coffee, a quiet dinner...whatever works for good conversation and lots of laughs!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a mother to four beautiful children.. Between work and kids, my life stays pretty busy but I am ready to make some time for myself. I just started working out again to get back to my healthy self. It is going to be a long journey. With that being said, if you are only attracted to a small woman then I am just not a good match for you:) Everyone has their preference on what they consider beautiful. When I was younger, physical appearance was very important. Now I am looking for personality. A good sense of humor and sweet guy just might win my heart:)If I have a free night, I like going to dinner, movies, bonfires, cooking out with friends. When I am with my children, I love being outdoors around water or taking them to the zoo. As far as music preferences..I am all over on this one. I listen to a little bit of everything. I do like R & B and the sad, sappy country songs the most though:)Happy fishing! :)

  • Rowena

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am mom of two beatiful kids. They mean the world to me. My son plays baseball and wrestles and my daughter cheers and does tumbling. I like all types of music, and love to go dancing. I think I look beautiful with or without make up on. I am very independant, and that money is not everything. Money doesn't make the world go round, we all do. I'm the type of person who will pay for dates as well. I don't think the guy should have to pay every time. I'm not up for any head games or anything like that at all.I'm very up front and honest. If you think you are getting some on the first date, then I'm not the girl for you. I want to get to know someone before that even happens. Just Saying! I've been played to much and I'm tired of getting played. I'm looking for someone who will accept me for me and not just my body or sex. I need someone whose just as out going as I am and will accept my kids as well. I'm looking for a real man who knows what he wants and goes for it. I don't have time for someone whose wanting nothing but sex, cause this girl needs more than just that. So that pretty much sums it up. If interested message me and we'll chat or meet. What ever you think you'd like to do. Dinner (doesn't matter where) or a walk or drive so we can get to know each other. Maybe movie.

  • Gardenia

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Fun loving, out going, no DRAMA... My children and family come first. I didn't just grow . I was taught to speak when I enter a room. Say please and Thankyou. To have respect for my elders and get off my lazy butt aond let the elder in the room have my chair. Say 'yes sir' and 'no sir' , lend a helping hand to those in need . Hold the door for the person behind me . Say excuse me when its needed and love people for who they are not what I can get from them . I was also taught to treat people the way I want to ne treated . that being said I'm not interested in hookups or one nighters. I'm down to earth and know what I want . If you were raised with manners , know what the true meaning of friendship is and how to treat a woman , I would love to get to know you better.

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