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Stella, 39
United States, Colorado, Idaho Springs

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About Me

I like to hang out and do a lot of "normal" things. Bowling, going to movies, eating out, cooking and enjoying a nice bottle of wine, walking around our many lakes too. In the summer I tend to hang out at my neighborhood pool a lot with my three kids and go fishing also at my family cabin.I hope to eventually find someone who I can be with in a committed relationship again. I am happy being single too but I also do look forward to being part of a couple again. When I am with someone I like to spend time a couple days a week with them too - even if just for a couple hours each time. It makes me feel like we are still connected even when we're apart - to remember the fun we had when we were together. Texting is a fun way to stay in touch when we're apart as well, but still nothing like being in the same room with someone you really like.Things I'm looking for in a guy I guess would be first and foremost honesty - I've dealt with a couple that weren't and it just end badly when you can't be up front and honest. I would like whoever I am with to have a good sense of humor and not take life too seriously either. I am not looking for someone that has to be at the gym every day but also knows how to take care of themselves and takes pride in their appearance, but hasn't "let themselves go" either. Someone who has good family values and knows how to treat a woman he's with - how to make her feel cherished and loved. And knows how to treat his kids and my kids right (if a relationship gets to the point where I introduce them to my kids).I tend to like just about every kind of music except extremely heavy metal or rap - I just don't get either of those types of music. Other than that my range is pretty wide -I do like to let whoever I am in a relationship with at the time know that I appreciate them and like them to do the same to me. A lot of times its the little things that let each other know that you appreciate them and love them too. I have been described by friends as a great listener and friend who is there for them whenever they need me.FYI about me...I'm severely allergic to cats and dogs, so if you have one or the other we probably won't be a good match. A lot of people don't pay attention to this paragraph and end up *** anyways. Its not that I don't like cats and/or dogs - its that I cannot be around them for more than an hour without my throat starting to close up on me and it gets tough to breathe. Sorry if this is a deal breaker for anyone. but its just part of who I am. Also, I do consider myself conservative too...so if you consider your political beliefs more on the liberal side we probably wouldn't get along too well either. I'm not outspoken about politics at all but its hard to have a relationship with someone who feels so differently than you do about some pretty big things in life.If you have any other questions about this just ask away - I will answer just about anything you ask. Well depending on what type of date it is it can differ. On a typical first date I'd tend to just meet either for lunch or for coffee or drinks - possibly dinner if we hit it off. From there we'd have to see how we get along and on future dates try to plan them out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Reese from Idaho Springs | Woman | 40 years old | Virgo
    Reese

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I would like to find a good guy. To me, that means someone that is sweet, considerate, attractive, giving, and fun. He is also open to a full time relationship and sharing his life with someone special. He is a person that is respectful, and confident in himself and WHO HE IS. He stands up for me and doesn't believe in drama. And, if we become serious, he will put our relationship first. He will want to be my friend AND lover. I am responsible; however, I can still be very goofy and funny. I would like my mate to play along with me. Playful & intelligent banter is stimulating. I love to be flirtatious with my guy and find it very alluring if he is secure, open, and classy. I am outgoing around my friends & family and can't find too many strangers. However, I truly believe in quality over quantity. I am looking for someone who will want to go out and DO things... I want to go out and have some fun!!! I can even be caught listening to the likes of Aerosmith to Bob Marley!! The music choice depends on the moment and the atmosphere. (Anything that calls for little white lights, a view of the water, and a bottle of good wine is my type of atmosphere.) My interests range from cooking & baking; to decorating; working out; pottery; painting; drawing; reading; entertaining & grilling out with friends; shopping; and home improvements. I am respectful to those around me and expect my mate to be the same.; mountains, and outside festivals & concerts. I am really open for any type of adventure; or, just staying in and cuddling on the couch while watching a good movie. I even like drinking a few adult beverages with friends at a bar and going dancing!! The more friends the merrier!Thank you for reading my profile. Please send me an e-mail to say "hi" if you are looking for similar things. Someplace where we can talk and get to know each other to see if there is chemistry. Maybe dinner and/or a few drinks.

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  • Jessika from Idaho Springs | Woman | 38 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am looking for a gentleman who is adventourous and knows how to treat a lady with respect and kindness. I have far too much self respect to entertain you by sharing inappropriate photos or participating in vulgar conversations so pass me if u expect such. I am a CLASSY educated mother looking for someone who is career driven,smart, confident and enjoyable. I'm not being a prud, but at this point in my life I know more of what I don't want than what I do.I work hard and play hard and I prefer to spend time with someone that we enjoy each others' company and can laugh and have a good time regardless of the date setting. Meaning having dinner at a local hot spot, seeing a play or having a " tall skiny vanilla latte" at Starbucks (my fav). The ideal date is certainly not to meet for a glass of wine but I think it's the best way to see each other face to face to see if there is a connection. If the conversation goes great and there is a SPARK then a more memorable evening should be planned. I think it is nice when the plans are arranged with reservations etc. and prefer to try new places as opose to chain restaurants.

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  • Dona from Idaho Springs | Woman | 38 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    ; their hobbies. I am pretty open minded and enjoy hanging out with my friends & family. I am hoping to find someone to hang out with that is laid back & likes being around kids :) I'm ok with hanging out in the back yard grilling. I'm not into drama. I do have 5 kids, if that scares you at all you may want to move along. Just being honest. They are 20, 17, 16, 13 & 2..yes I started over and wouldn't change it for the world!Just a little note for those of you who are looking to just "hook up"..keep looking, because I'm not your girl! Like I said, I'm ok with hanging out in the back yard with a BBQ. As long as the company is right it doesn't matter where we are :)

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