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Trudy, 40

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-taker, Bikram Yoga ***, intuitive.STUFF I LOVE: My daughter, music, acting, yoga, skiing, triathlon, skateboarding, rollerblading, sewing, travel, paranormal, film, musicals, theater, opera, books, astrology, animals, snow, sewing, True Blood, GAC, Game of Thrones (Novel Version & HBO, too!) Breaking Bad, most HBO & Show Time & Cinemax series.WORK: Musician, indie label recording artist, singer/songwriter/ pianist/ coproducer, actor, MM of KatzenMaus Records & (www.TamaraCimmerian.ABOUT ME: I keep myself very healthy and fit, as I have an fibromyalgia and also a painful autoimmune syndrome that's similar to lupus. While I am very active, I also can get very tired and I have to balance my life out with a lot of rest. I'm looking for a partner who is emotionally stable, very intelligent (please be a reader!), caring, financially successful and secure (as I am, and I won't put up with a "freeloader" ), has great goals and a good amount of ambition, has fantastic artistic taste, is spiritual but not necessarily religious, heathly and fit (no smokers, please!), is great with children and animals, and last but not least, can accept me as a whole person. I love men with elegant personalities who have class and a lot of chivalry. I dislike people who are egotistical, cheap and inconsiderate-- and who have little integrity. If your profile says that you indeed want a relationship, but in actuality you are more interested in sampling the newest, shiniest, girl on the market, and seeing about the bigger, better deal, then you will never make that mental and emotional connection that's necessasary for a man to fall in love with a woman. I want to be with some with whom I can learn from as well as teach. I want a partner who understands life is a journey, and I really wish that I can find someone to accompany me along that journey, someone who's walking side by side with me, not ahead of me or behind me. :) I'm really flexible! But, I love to try new things! I love to dress up and I'm very well traveled and cultured (I studied Opera in Europe), but I also love dressing down hanging out at home or at a cool diner that has a cool vibe and atmosphere. I love to rollerblade or stroll along the beach, too. I think any first date that gets us talking and coopering together is great. Any date that will help guage the potential to relate to one another and be a good match. Communication and fun are key!Please don't be offended if I don't return your text, I just don't see us as a match. I'm not interested in serial daters, and if you're not an intellectual, we will most likely not get along... I truly and sincerely wish everyone the best of luck on their prospective journeys to find love and happiness. Namaste.TC

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Delsie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm down-to-earth, adventurous, and no-nonsense. Chemistry is important to me and I think it's there or it's not. I'm originally from the East coast so I've got a good backbone, a strong sense of honesty, and a funny way of saying words like "coffee" and "sauce." :) I'm slow to commit, but when I do, you'll know I always have your back and will be there when I tell you I will. I don't like designer bags or shoes, so the only way you can impress me is by treating me with respect and being awesome. :)I like to find little explored paths, new and interesting experiences, and try to wring as much fun and joy out of my life as possible. I connect best with someone who likes to learn a new thing or is up for an adventure (big or small). I keep active and have done a ton of 5ks, 10ks, half-marathons, and even a mini-triathalon in ***. I enjoy the mud/obstacle runs the best however! Totally excited for it next time around when I can exact some vengeance! LOL! :-) I've been 38 for about 6 years now cause I think it's an awesome age. I've done visual effects work for the last six years, but being that my position is totally outsourced to India now, I've set my sights on opening my own cake and coffee shop. I don't have kids (and will not be having any) and am open to finding a great, honest guy who wants to create something wonderful together.I am NOT looking for an *** relationship. I will quickly get bored if you type at me too long and never ask me out, sorry. Passivity just doesn't do it for me.Oh, and all my pictures are recent (or relatively so) and dated for your peace of mind. ***********PS:Cut and paste form letters are a total turn-off!! (especially when you repeatedly send them). And why does everyone say "I love to laugh and you must too!" Does anyone ever say "I hate laughing"?Please, please have decent pictures. Wearing sunglasses/motorcycle helmets in them all, too far away, 5 of your dog, one group photo with no note saying which is you, blurry/grainy = no good.If I don't write back, that means I didn't get any tingly sensations when I looked at your profile. Don't take it personally, that's just the way it goes sometimes. I tried to be considerate initially but there was too much drama kicked back from a polite "Thank you but no sparks on this end" and who wants to deal with hostility or pleading? (not me). So, sorry. Coffee or drink dates are best for first meetings. No sense in spending a lot of time or money when you've never even met and can't say for sure if you have any chemistry.

  • Peace

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Sarcastic, witty, educated. I am out of a 15 relationship.. I'm am looking for a friends first scenario.I'm a joker, and appreciate all sorts of humor, even stuff that I have to think on for a bit. I'm into horses, and have some cats. I have motorcycle, and although I'm a newb, I would love to go for a ride with you provided you have your own bike, and are prepared to not get me into trouble.I seriously a no BS kinda gal, and I will tell you just that. I cannot smile with a mouth full of crap, and wouldn't want someone that did. - things that a potential partner for me should have taken care of:: A Job or a purpose in Life, Transportation... a place to call home... Not Couch surfing I'm looking for someone who will hold my hand in public, be open to doing things. Hiking, Riding, Hanging at home watching a movie. Helping me figure out how to cook, or learn to swim. Maybe go dig rocks with me, and find ghost towns. Someone that knows that I'm passionate about animals, is either involved or respects my commitment. I would prefer someone taller than me (hugs are best that way).I like all types of music... but Shawshank Redemption is a favorite, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Independence Day...Books: Suspense, Romance, Paranormal.... Too many to List: The Red Tent was Excellent, as well as Outliers...... I also like coffee at a local brew spot. Dinner and a movie..... I'm pretty open.

  • Alani

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am kind of an old fashioned romantic. I like to be spoiled as well as spoiling my partner. I value trust and honesty. I believe in love at first site but I also believe that you can find false love at first site. I love long walks in the mountains commonly known as hiking. I love the outdoors but not overly much. I like nice quiet nights at home watching a good movie. I love to read a good book, sit in front of a fire with a glass of wine or a cup of hot chocolate on a cold winter night. What am I looking for in a partner? someone who is just enough like me but at the same time just enough different to make our relationship interesting. I cannot put in a list what I want in a partner. if I did no one would ever fit in that list. I have different thoughts about people based on them. I want to find someone who is not afraid to be spontaneous and a little childish at time.I will not say my life is completely drama free. I have children after all. My son is 11 and my daughter is 17. everyone comes with some sort of life issues. I don't expect that everyone have a perfect life. lets face it...if our lives were perfect we would not be on here. I just ask that your life is not run by your issues and that they are not the kind of issues that will impact a relationship in a bad way. Everyone has some sort of baggage in their lives. I have come to expect that.

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