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Joella, 40
United States, Colorado, Fruita

Offline, last seen Wed, 27 Aug 2025 22:13:20

About Me

Okay I admit it. It is near impossible to capture, express, or submit my core essence on a dating website. I really wanted to. I have a unique, quirky, startlingly honest, fun, easy going, outgoing, and kind to others personality. I enjoy writing, reading some, learning or experiencing more, and feeling the good in life the most. Hmm… now to capture this on here and mix in whacky humor too. Yes I agree impossible. I do believe in finding life and not waiting for it to come to me. I’m told I’m spontaneous and always up for any adventure be it big or small. I’ll check online, go with friend’s last minute, and even long term plan an event. I find being flexible and finding the simple joys in the moment make better entertainment than too much organization. All best laid plans will fall apart so enjoy the ravel. I like thinking, talking, ruminating, laughing, teasing, playing, star gazing, camping, and all the other human luxuries. Snuggling to a movie or watching TV, but moving, exercising, and feeling the sun on my face just as much. I don’t want to be unhealthy or over weight and will work to keep it in the happy enough for health, but fat enough for shrimp cream sauce over tortellini. You must enjoy life meaning moving, experiencing new things, romancing, and dancing! (I’m not great either, but I’m game to improve.) I’ I enjoy new people, new places, new stories, and poking and touching historical anything. Toss me in and I’ll poke every button in the abandoned train in the trespassing yard. (Sign is just for liability right?) I need taller than me, somewhat happily healthy, affectionate, willing to work out, loves getting out whether it be a play or the wilderness. *** live close and it sounds close. First Date: Hmmm... I think I just want to meet in a restaraunt in case the person I go out with is a nut!; R laughing, playing, and a comedy club. Outdoor activities are the best.), and trying the local cuisine. All awesome things to do. Looking at the stars late at night on a hammock and talking over stress of the day, to fun of the day, to laughter and life or sharing intimate thoughts. I guess that isn't a first date. Again I'm looking for light-hearted fun, while hoping to run across that special someone. Ahhh... who knows. Relax and discover the joys that make life worth living.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Action Martial Arts
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