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Hellen, 38

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UPDATE ***...I don't get on here that much SO when I do check this site and IF i am interested in you then you will hear back from me. UPDATE ***....Still on here and why, I HAVE NO CLUE!?!?!?!?! ALL my pics are current as current as can be. I am a REAL person. I also just recently got a promotion (store manager) so I work 45 to 55hrs a week. I spend my days off with my son or relaxing. I AM looking for a TRUE friend first and foremost. IF more develops GREAT, if not then its been nice. I WON'T waste either of our precious time IF I don't think anything will develop between us. UPDATE ***.....Ok, Really guys PLEASE PLEASE stop with the BS childish games!!!!! I'm a TRUE & FAITHFUL gal looking for the SAME in a MAN not a lil boy! UPDATE ***......Seriously guys stop with the BS games already!!!! I'm not a stupid gal that is going to fall for high school pick up lines. My time is precious to me so DON'T waste it. Im a very unique gal, if u wanna know just HOW unique just ask me. NOW, back to the show....LOLI have been on this site for close 4yrs now. Sometimes I think it is just a waste of time & then I think....WHAT IF??? I am a single mother to an awesome 17yr old son. He is my life & my world. He will ALWAYS come first. He keeps me busy with all that he is involved in(boy scouts, soccer, football) so I may not always have time to do things but that doesn't mean that I won't TRY to make time for myself &/or you.; I am also a promoter for the Visalus Sciences Body by Vi protein shakes. I am NOT on here looking for a father for my son or someone to support us. I am doing just fine on my own. I do own my own home & my truck is paid for as well. I am a very honest, faithful, truthful, loving, kind, caring, fun-loving gal. I don't have drama in my life NOR do I want it in my life. I don't play games with peoples' minds or their emotions NOR do I want that done to me. I'm not a gal to "throw out" the phrase I Love You very quickly either. I am looking for someone that will be my best friend, partner, lover, & soulmate. I am looking for a long term relationship. I have been single for over 3yrs now so I know how to be patient & wait for the right man to come along. Im not the type to just "settle" just to be in a comfy relationship.-girlfriend, or a BUNCH of gals hanging all over you......THAT'S a bad sign in my book. Please have CURRENT pics of yourself.....I don't care how you looked years ago. All my pics are as current as can be. IF you want just a one night stand, sex partner, "friend with benefits", or "fling" PLEASE don't waste my time or yours by *** First date.....Hmmmm, I would have to say in a nice restaurant so we could be able to talk with each other without a lot of background noise. Starbucks is nice as well.......... BUT then again, I do like to watch sports too ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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