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Delana, 40

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About Me

We don't give out our hearts and friendship to play games with. Bottom line -- I desire a Christian husband and children to pour my life and love into.NOTE: Like most people -- I am posting on this site with my own specific preferences and personal desires. Without at least, meeting the basic preferential criteria there won't be a mutual attraction or match. Respectfully, I ask that you REALLY READ my whole profile before contacting me. New friends are great, but I am looking for a MATCH.JUST FOR THE RECORD:> I RARELY drink any type of alcoholic beverage.> I'm NOT desperately lonely, bored, or in distress. Not in need of someone to rescue me or pay my bills.> I'm NOT looking for someone to work on my car, my house, my land, or my life. I'm doing ok.> I'm on this site in hopes of connecting with a SINGLE WHITE CHRISTIAN MAN, whose desire is to become b e s t f r i e n d s AND p a r t n e r s - f o r - l i f e....( Some people call that a "husband" ).... My prayer is to connect with a Caucasian man who is serious about his Christian faith and relationship with God and family -- Who loves both, children and animals, as I do.> If you're just into "BIG Chicks" don't even bother writing... We are NOT a Match!! Dealing with the consequences of my past unhealthy choices has taken longer then I'd hoped, but it's working well!! (My "gym" membership is not to meet "Jim"!!) Wait till you see my new pictures! But if I'm out of your "radius" now - No problem. No reason to contacting me after my new pics are posted, either. Bottom line - If we don't match in basics, we're not a match.> If you are over weight or just right, don't let that alone stop you from contacting me. I was a cheerleading, played volleyball, basketball, baseball and soccer on teams for years. But I had a few injuries - some health issues - made bad choices and I got fat. Believe me. I understand, things can change! Still, when it comes to choices - I am very serious about living healthy. You must be too in order to be a Match! (It's about our future together.)I LOVE and WANT CHILDREN, but don't have any, yet. I hope to have my own wheither by birth or adoption asap. Although I cherish my role as an "Aunt" I want to be a "mom". I'd love to have a big family to care for. So, if you DON'T WANT children there is no need to contact me. If you do want children or already have custody of your own, but want more -- Keep reading....As a Christian, I love the Lord Jesus. I am loyal in devotions regarding my relationship to God, family and friends. I'm also serious and sincere in interacting kindly and caring towards others. Being considerate and respectful of other people's feelings, beliefs, wants, needs and personal boundries is part of who I am. As well, I appreciate the same courtesy.Though I'm VERY tender hearted, I am also a tough lady. I'm not stubborn, but I stand respectfully firm for what I believe is right. I'm confident, but not stuck-up or arrogant. Obviously not without faults, but I am stable in my personal life and career. One of my strengths is being fairly flexable. Though I'm a planner and goal oriented, I also enjoy spontaneity. Being a mature woman, I take responsibly for my choices. Rather then blame others for my mistakes, I deal with and learn from them.I am not a whiner! 'Hate being around people who seem to enjoy complaining! I prefer spending my time with fun people, who are kind, thoughtful and easy going. That's the type of person I choose to be. I'm happier for it!! I am also a very caring and generous person. I have solid boundries, yet I am charitable to a fault sometimes. But I do have a low-to-no tolerence for such things as pettiness, drama, greed, selfishness, arrogance, cruelty, hatefuliness and violence.To me life is not a game, but God made plenty of room for fun in it! And I am a fun friend with a good sense of humor. I'm also a strong woman of character and integrity, so all my "fun" is LEGAL!! (Lol... The only thing I smoke is BBQ.) I love "safe" adventure. I like trying new things - Seeing new places - Meeting new people. But I still appreciate the tried & true... Like faithful friends and favorite places. 'Love the outdoor activities from backyard to beach to mountians -- I love it all. Also like doing almost all the "Girly stuff" too. There is a time for cuddling by the fireplace, watching "Chick Flicks" or maneuvering the mall maddness that just excites my heart!There are to many fun things I enjoy doing to list them all. Then there is my wonderful crazy family to share!My dear father was born in Germany and still has family there. My beloved Polish/Ukrainian stepdad is a "Yankee" I have a big family, who live all over the USA and in Europe. I was blessed to have a muticutual upbringing. It was great! Though I enjoy travel throughout the states and abroad, siteseeing and visiting a host of family and friends - Though I enjoy various hobbies, outings, sports and music - As well, I am blessed to have reached many of my goals and aspirations. Still, my greatest desire is to share the joys and challenges of life with God's match for me -- as I pour my life and love into him and our children.I've never been married. It's exciting and kind of scary at the same time for me! So while I'm actively waiting -- Trusting God -- I'm looking forward to finally meeting my future husband and "best friend".Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops Something we decide together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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