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Minda, 31
United States, Wisconsin, Kaukauna

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About Me

I'm a 30 year old single, cuddly brunette. I'm a good woman with old-school values and an offbeat sense of humor looking for a good person with a similar values and great sense of humor. *If you are finished reading now, that is fine, but please do not contact me, my profile is long and is designed to let you know me and what I am looking for, and will weed out people who aren't looking for someone like me. If you take the time to read this, we will not be wasting each others time.*I love to cook and spend quality time with my friends and family, and cuddling up with someone special to watch a gangster movie, comedy, or heist flick, and going on roadtrips. I listen to most kinds of music, but have a special love of hip hop, I also like grunge/punk rock, r&b, soul, and the blues. I am generally laid back, and caring but I also get silly and love to joke around. I have an old school mindset about caring for my mate, and I have been patiently waiting to meet a wonderful person who will be worthy of that treatment.?I am on here looking for forever. I am looking for the one person who God specially designed to be with me for the rest of my life. I want that one person who can get up on saturday and help me cook brunch and can be goofy and watch movies with me while laying around cuddling all day. I want someone to walk around the lake with and spend quiet times with. How about a problem solver who isn't so trapped by the electronic age that they can have a blast playing scrabble or pai gow poker with me by candle light when a storm knocks out the electricity.? ?Im interested in meeting other SINGLES ONLY for friendship, conversation, and dates that could lead to a relationship. I want you to know that I have a pet cat and he is family, so if you have an allergy or an aversion to cats, I am probably not the woman for you. As I'm sure you may have noticed, I am something of an A-type personality (most Aries women are, lol), and if you can't breathe where there is order and I can't breathe where there is none, than I'm thinking we would suffocate each other. I don't have the available capital to finance anyone except my son, so don't expect at any point that i will give/buy you anything.I am not a dressy, prissy, diva sort of woman. My style is generally built for comfort, so if I have no reason to dress up, I don't. Life is filled with hard lessons, I prefer to be comfortable for the tests. So if you want a model type who wears corsettes to bed everynight, I will be a glaring disappointment to you 85% of the time, so just walk away now. I smoke and have a few tattoos as well, so if you are opposed to them please don't contact me. I need you to know that I do not and will not drive at any point. I made a concrete decision that the greatest service that i could provide to the world around me is to never drive again after totaling 3 too many cars. If you require a woman who drives, than i am not the woman for you.??? Now, a few quick notes related to some things I have noticed people on here looking for; Love seems so hard to find now that sex is so easily available, and sex is not what I am here for, so I will not easily avail that to you. If you can't wait then i can't waste a second getting to know you, because i cant wait to meet the future and you aren't it. I am looking for more. Clearly, I am not intetested in intimate encounters, late night hook-ups, having you over to my house before I know you, coming to your house before I know you, dates that don't start until after 10pm, dates that start between midnight and 9am, dates that take place in hotel rooms, helping you to make your girlfriend or baby mama jealous, indeed a more likely scenerio would involve she and i walking away in the sunset holding hands and laughing at you. I don't date couples, swingers, or groups of homies. I do not wish to take part in any social experiments or mind games, I mastered those games and sold them back to GameStop years ago. I am not looking for strictly text relationships or being just another number in someone's phone. I'm not willing to send you pictures of anything except my face, so if you are seeking naughty pics, I am not the lady you are looking for. I cannot help anyone define the nature of their sexuality for themselves or anyone else. If you have questionable sexual orientation, if you are closeted, confused, a homo thug, or on the DL I can't help you. I am also not intersted in joining anyone on an exploration of the world of s&m or fetishes. If you are the type of man who has a bros over hoes mentality, then it will not work out and I refer you to the previous section related to homo thugs. I refuse to assist anyone with getting their greencard. If you need one, you can apply at the department of Imigration. They will help you. I can't. Also, I don't involve myself in any way in other people's marriages or relationships... No matter how open or unhappy they are. If you are unhappy in your relationship then you should break up with the other person. How can you expect to be my future if you have the past on your shoulders.????? Now, if you are still reading this, still SINGLE, realistic, down to earth, have intellect, manners, a relaxed, chilled out temperment, a strong sense of self, and a desire to get to know and ultimately unite with a real, honest, loyal, down to earth, playful woman, then please leave me a message, because I would love to get to know you too!??? Any activity where we can have fun and really get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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