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About Me

I am previously married / have no children. In terms of the relationships we have in our lives, I strongly believe your partner should be your priority, but that it is also important to balance your life among family, friends, work, play, continued learning, alone time, hobbies, relaxation, etc. I love to laugh - enjoy quiet evenings at home with my partner, dining out, good red wine, watching movies, cooking, cooking a romantic meal with my partner, get-togethers with family / friends, adventures / exploring new places with my partner, putting an effort into my fitness, traveling (would love to do more of), weekend getaways, day trips, cottage life, boating, nature, campfires, thunderstorms, walks in the forest, skiing (snow/water), back yard BBQ's, my pet, gardening, reading, just relaxing / doing things around the house. My friends describe me as warm and genuine. I am cheerful, loyal, and enjoy doing things with my significant other who hopefully enjoys many of the same things. I am passionate about the things I believe in. I tend to be direct - I say what I mean and mean what I say, and am looking for same. About the one I'm looking for...Intelligence, a good sense of humour, and the abililty to not take yourself too seriously are important charateristics to me. I detest arrogance, and appreciate someone down to earth.Above all, I am looking for a man of integrity; someone who is dependable, kind, comfortable giving and receiving affection, respects others, emotionally mature/stable, loyal, has a stong work ethic, financially responsible, a good communicator who is open with nothing to hide. Looking for someone who is at the stage where he is ready, looking for a committed relationship / life partner. It is important to me that you have completely moved on from your ex, i.e. both emotionally (that you've taken the time to put your former relationship behind you) and financially (alimony and child support payments a thing of the past). Otherwise, I believe your new relationship becomes complicated / contaminated by the one you are not yet completely out of. Would prefer no children period - not out of selfishness as many people with children seem to think, but because they introduce dynamics, life-long complications into a relationship and never-ending connections to ex-wives. If you do have children, it is important they are at a stage where they are independent, i.e. completed their education and on their own.I would just like to add: I am a one-man woman, and would not be comfortable with someone who is into dating multiple people at once. i.e. if we agree we are dating to see where it takes us, then it is important to me we are dating exclusively, until/unless we agree the match is no longer worth pursuing. Somewhere we can relax and talk so we can get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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