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Elissa, 51

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About Me

Hi! Thanks for stopping by. I own a Bistro and Catering company and have 3 incredible sons, 22, 18 and 16. I have many interests and many friends and am just looking for a man who has his act together and wants to enjoy some time with a woman who is light, happy, fun and drama free...seriously, I am those things! :) I can dress up and go to a black tie gala with you, charm your friends and hold my own in any conversation and I can throw on my jeans and sweatshirt and spend the week camping in the wilderness or head out for a ride on your motorcycle.I exercise regularly, practice yoga, eat and cook pretty healthy but don't mind splurging every once in a while on something fantastically delicious. I am in the best shape of my life and I am often told I look much younger than I am. I am on the board for a local breast cancer organization and am a volunteer coach for a baseball league for special needs children.I love the beach and am scuba certified...I love live music of all kinds and I absolutely love to dance...I love to travel, especially with the right travel partner...I love chemistry with a man and kissing and never wanting to stop....It would be fantastic if you like to cook, or at least like to eat since I like to cook. :) We are both comfortable going out on the town, attending fundraisers, cultural or sporting events and also spending the evening at home relaxing and cuddling. Family is important to you, whether you have kids or not.I enjoy a man who is a gentleman and treats me and everyone around him with respect....that is very sexy to me. You love to laugh...but who doesn't...and you think I am funny. You have a kind heart....P.S. I have been divorced for 10 years. :) I think it is nice getting to know each other a bit through *** texting. Then, by the time we do get to meet, we already have some things in common and a connection seems more likely. Happy hour somewhere seems pretty chill and easy. A second date might involve a great restaurant you love, going out to listen to some live music and maybe...dancing a little. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dandrenor

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am currently staying at my folks helping them out. (my father has cancer) Not sure what the future hold for me as to where my butt will be planted for the long term but today I am here and I know I will be tomorrow.; 24. I love the arts and seeing all the ways others express themself through their work. I truly enjoy jam'n on some keyboards, pick'n my guitar a bit, good movies, laugh'n alot, playing games (board games that is!), nice walks n talks, camping by a creek and spending time with my family. I would like to meet a friend or two that has similar interest and would like to make a good friend. Am I looking for that perfect mate? Not really. I was always told that when I stop looking that is when he would appear. So I stopped. And now I wait but I always have room for another good timing friend. There is so much to do and see in the world and to be able to share those times with another makes it that much better. I am a very honest, caring, compassionate, loyal woman that loves to have a really good time and laugh alot. No expectations, no pressure, no games. I believe that we should treat another as we would like to be treated. I am open to chat'n alot, getting to know one another on here and then taking it from there. This internet way of meeting people can be a bit scarry, but I am a risk taker and not into the bar scene (alone) so I will just keep checking on here and seeing what alittle faith and patience can bring me!! I lost my dad to his cancer on March 3, ***and my life hasn't been the same since. He was my #1 Man, my best friend and mentor and I just am feeling alittle lost without him. But I pray everday to continue to find my way. I miss him terribly but I am very thankful that I was able to spend months of quality time with him and I was able to say good-bye. I ended up staying up here to support my oldest daughter while she was going through a difficult time and then I found out I was going to be a grandma so of course I had to stay for that. I don't get to see him very much and I have a pretty hard time with that so I also pray about that everyday. I was ready weeks ago. And the weather up here seems to just get darker, grayer and wetter and it sucks!!!! (excuse my language) But enough is enough.! Well that pretty much wraps it up. It is 11pm and I am about ready to call it a day. Play my guitar alittle, pray and hit the sheets!!! (well, couch, (I am staying at my daughter's)Oh and I am looking for someone I can find a common ground with, laugh with, share with, explore with. Someone who respects individuality, loves music, walking, animals, family time (of course fishing!) and believes in God. Time is going so fast and it seems to really get faster as we get older. My life line is a moving and I have a huge "Bucket List". Take care Let's see-a first date. Well the word "Date" makes me alittle uneasy. Probably due to the fact that the last time I went on a date was about 25 yrs ago and it was a blind date it was terrible! So yes it makes me alittle nervous but IF I were to go on one I would probably like a day time activity to start with. Maybe an art festival or outdoor concert. Possibly a trip to a zoo or museum. Nice lunch somewhere, good conversation and a small ice cream cone for the ride home. But then again, all that could change and I certainly am open to suggestions and always willing listen to your ideas. Just casual, no pressure, good time and a new good friend.

  • Marietta

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    My life has been great and still is. I have experienced a lot and learned from it. I was born and raised in Germany and I have been living in L.A. since over 20 years. I enjoy living here since the climate allows many outdoor activities. I love the ocean and enjoy bike riding or walking on the beach and watch the beautiful sunsets. I love nature since it gives energy and spirit.I have traveled a lot to experience other cultures and there is still a lot to see and learn.I would like to meet my best friend and soulmate to explore more things in life. something casual -- a walk on the beach or for a drink and take it from there.

  • Peronel

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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