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Kendall, 23

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***I am a woman who has been through a lot and this is my story. To be quite honest, to start you should know that I am a very strong willed woman with an amazing spirit and a good heart. I am very educated and I am currently going to school. I am a very tall woman and a beautiful one at that. I have both beauty and brains. There's not many like that nowdays. I'm going to school to be a federal female law enforcement officer because I had an abusive childhood. I am really shy around men so I'm looking for a man who can be patient with me who knows how to respect a woman. I am a sweet woman with amibition, goals, and dreams. I am a very determined woman with the personality of an investigator. I have my life all planned out and I am a woman who knows what I want.; Criminal Justice online. I am working on my Bachelor's of Science in Criminology. I want to be an investigator and I do want to disclose what agency I wish to work for in the future and what specific job title I want but am willing to tell you after we talk a little bit more. I just finished up my 40 hour a week internship with the sheriff's office. There has been much controversy over my bikini pics on here. Guys just assume that because I post pics of me wearing a bikini that that means that I am easy to get into bed. I should let you know that I do not sleep with any of the guys I date and don't at all and haven't ever however that does not mean that I do not do other things with guys because I do. The bikini pics are just simply to show that I lost over 30 lbs over the last 2 years. My story of my weight loss is that 4 years ago, I was deeply in love with a man who didn't treat me right. He "pretended" that he really loved me and in fact he never really cared about me for one minute and he talked about me badly behind my back. I just wanted to be fwbs and he told everyone I was more which I was never. He never asked me to be his bf, he never spent any money on me, never even took me to dinner once, never bought me anything and I wasn't sleeping with him. I was completely devastated when I found out what he had did. Guys around town talked about me behind my back, set me up on dates then stood me up because they thought it was funny just to make me cry. What he did hurt me pretty badly. I was extremely depressed so I stress ate nonstop for several years. My weight skyrocketed and I went from 115lbs all the way to ***to 170lbs within a matter of time. I still thought I was beautiful so I'd wear a bikini places and guys would laugh at me in public point at me and call me a fatass to my face and talk about me for wearing a bikini and showing off my body because I was chubby and had fat rolls. I worked out and lost weight after my heart healed completely the past 2 years. I went from ***lbs to ***lbs What I did just shows you can do anything you set your mind to! I was a size 12 and I went to a size ***and that's what I am right now.I hope you read my about me and that you find me someone you can see yourself spending time with or at least feel somewhat inspired by my life story. I am a really good woman. I am not asking for you to date me and I am not looking for a bf right now. Maybe later in life but for right now I just simply want a man that I can spend time with. Someone who can make me feel special. I would like to spend my free time with a man who can make feel that I am worthy of a man's love. All my life I have been torn down by man after man and every time I just get back up, brush myself off and move on with my life. I have a free spirit and I am a woman who do exactly as she wants. I will not be told what to do and will not follow your orders. I live my life exactly how I want to on my own terms. I am not a woman who has to have a man to survive. I like my independence and I do not change my schedule to fit a man's needs, if he wants to see me or spend time with me he is going to have to fit his life around mine. I will not spend ***around a man. I am a woman who likes to have her own time and I enjoy going out with my friends and going out with other people. I will not put up with a controlling or possessive man. I have dealt with far too many of those. I have stalkers and therefore we will not meet in person off of here right away. I need to know that I can feel safe around you and get a feel for your personality. I need to talk to you on here first for a lil bit so that I can know that I can keep your attention. Do not message me unless you seriously are interested in me because I don't really reply to many messages. In your first message let me know what attracts you to me and let me know what your intentions are upfront.Smart people seem like crazy people to dumb people

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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