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Ember, 41

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About Me

With much debate, I have decided to try to date... BUT with rules. No pressure for sex please... I can't deal with that pressure along with trying to meet new people... I would rather just go out and have fun... I am a single mom with very little time away from my kids. I also don't talk about my kids for there safety so pls don't ask. I use my cell to go online so be aware that it sometimes says I'm online... but I'm not. Looking to make new friends to help my journey through life. Not looking to commit at the moment as I'm working on myself physically & emotionally so I'm not ready to mess anyone else's life. Friendship is composed to smiles , laughs and comradery. Intimate relationships are confusing, sad and require work... A good friendship is more treasured than an intimate relationship especially at this time in my life.I have posted simple pictures of me. No make-up and exactly how I would look when we hang out, although I have recently discovered minimal makeup can enhance. :) Please understand that I'm not looking for a partner. I'm not interested in getting hurt. I'm not available for sex so don't waste your time. All I want is someone to hang with and re-discover living. We can either grab a beverage & go for a walk... or grab a bite to eat and talk...Break the ice and see if we have anything in common What I do NOT want... Someone that wants to have sex with me on the first date !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Timika

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    WE ALL KNOW NOTHING LAST FOREVER OR WHY ELSE WOULD WE BE ON A SITE LIKE THIS...Physical love is the easiest but falling in love with a persons heart is the hardest!!!!!The 3 C's of life: choices, chances and changes. You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never changeDon't let the sadness of your past and the fear of your future ruin the happiness of your present.Never give your permanent feelings to a temporary person. Judge before u surrender ur soul to someone. .......Dont be someones down-time,sparetime,part time or sometime.If they cant be there for you all the time,then they're not worth your time....Never waste your time wondering about what might have been. Get busy thinking about what still might be. And trusting that whatever it is, it will leave you glad that what might have been, never came to be.....IT DONT PAY TO SAY WHAT YOU WANT OR LOOKING FOR BECAUSE WHEN ITS RIGHT THEIR FOR YOUR GRASP FOR SOME REASON OR ANOTHER ITS NOT WHAT YOU WANT AFTER ALL...I GET TIRED OF WOMAN SAYING I WANT A MAN TO SEE WHAT HE WILL DO FOR ME COME ON NOW WHAT ABOUT WHAT WE CAN DO FOR OURSELVES....IF A MAN CHOOSES TO DO SOMETHING FOR YOU THEN ITS BECAUSE HE WANTS TO NOT BECAUSE YOU NEED HIM TOO...I DONT LIE NOR CHEAT NEVER HAVE AND NEVER WILL,I AM A VERY LOYAL AND CARING PERSON AND VERY AFFECTIONATE ALSO TO THE RIGHT PERSON...YOU DONT HAVE TO BE PERFECT TO THE WORLD YOU ONLY HAVE TO BE PERFECT FOR ME...I ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE COMPLETLY.... IF I AM TALKING TO ONE PERSON THAT I AM INTERESTED IN THEN ITS STRICTLY HIM I DONT PLAY THE FIELD....I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND EITHER BECAUSE I DO HAVE RESPECT FOR MYSELF....SO IF THATS WHAT YOUR AFTER KEEP GOING AND I WISH YOU LUCK...I HAVE BEEN A SINGLE MOM FOR NINE YEARS NOW AND I HAVE FOUR WONDERFUL BOYS IN THIER LATE TEENS AND ONE IN HIS TWENTIES AND ONE THAT WILL REACH THOSE TEENAGE YEARS SOON...I HAVE A SAYING "IF I CANT TAKE YOU AT YOUR WORST THEN I DONT NEED YOU AT YOUR BEST"..." OUR HEARTS TOUCHED" SPECIAL PEOPLEAT CERTAIN SEASONSARE SENT TO USFOR SPECIAL REASONS.GOD PLANS THESE THINGSAND THEY MEAN MUCHWHEN TWO PATHS CROSSAND TWO HEARTS TOUCH.I'M THRILLED THAT YOUWERE SENT TO MEAND THANKFUL THATGOD LET IT BE. well that will all depend if we can even get that far since most of the guys that message me on here thinks that i am here for the hook up, if you would take the time read my profile then you would know that i am NOT here for that...dont give me your number in the hopes that sexual pictures will be traded because they wont, dont say you want to meet me then *** text, dont have time to waste it on anyone...and by all means dont send me a message asking me to marry you...i am not desperate... with that said meeting somewheres public to get to know one another, going listen to a live band, have a few drinks, dancing or whatever we may choose to do on a mutual note.....

  • Gwenda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy creating stained glass art. I've been enjoying this hobby for over 13 years. I love all kinds of music. I can't imagine life without it. Especially songs that take you back to a special place. I enjoy reading, watching movies, playing Wii, board games or cards, going out or staying in. I enjoy cooking and baking as well as home improvement projects. I love the summer and warm weather! I enjoy the outdoors and walks, hikes. Something fun where we can talk and get to know each other. Coffee shop (don't drink the stuff though), bookstore, etc.

  • Deven

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I will insert one of my favorite quotes by Bob Marley:“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”? Bob MarleyNeed I say more?Oh right, I am hispanic so dancing is a must. I like all types of music, movies, sports (I will watch paint drying in competion) and I have a sense of humour. I love kids and animals and I like meeting people.My goal in life is to be happy! I'm a down to earth person and I like to feel at ease with people so a drink at the bar to catch a basketball, soccer, hockey or football game would do me just fine.

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