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Merlyn, 39

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About Me

I am me..A Mom n Daughter A Big gal with an even bigger heart Definitely not a Barbie But not quite Roseanne ..Flaws I do have :-)Will do without so others Will have A giver not a takerMy kids will always come first (2 boys and a girl)That being said...I fall hard and fastbut get let down even faster first impressions mean the world to me ....so when you say your gna do somethingand dont or when you give false hopes..That's my red flag and we all know what Red stands for .Im cursed with wearing my heart on my sleeve and giving it at first glance..I believe in chivalry n demand it on first touchHold me, Smile with me, Tickle me, Tease me, Love me and most important, Be true to me.I'm lovingcaringA bit stubbornaffectionate loveableSomewhat sarcasticNeedy of attention n affection Silly n Goofy..gta mak my man smile:-)I alwaystake life for what it is not what I don't haveI'mbig hearted Quirky with a sick sense of humour ..Will cut up in public so if you get embarrassed easy..Im not your girlImQuiet when I'm madSmile when I'm sadI laugh when I'm dying inside..true storyHide from the world when I need to vent Will tell you a zillion times nothings wrong when there is.....just don't give up so fast on meI want you to..Love me at my worse Rise with me at my best Hold me non stop..kiss me on the second handPamper me..touch me..tickle me..massage me..die with meI Will walk beside you not in front A one man woman ..will not share himWilling to give 110% and...ready for the one who makes my inner beauty shine for all to see...... °°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°Oh!!! N if you dont like meat on your plate... Than stick with burying your bones :-) °°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°Show me what a real man can do for his woman and his children Tailgate ..Cold Night..Blankey...Bonfire.. Zac Brown on the tunes ..You ..Me....and 2 Smiles

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Delana

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm really surprised that the choice of mermaid is not available because that is what I would be!!!I crave someone who is ready for a dynamic relationship with a fantastic partner! I am looking for a spiritual, open minded guy who is ready to have consciousness expanded! Must be loving and kind, passionate, romantic, affectionate, intelligent, very mature, stable, ready and willing to give at least the same or more!! Someone who is honest, monogamous, has morals and high ethical standards.....someone who is conscious of doing the "right thing" at all times. Someone who is serious and responsible but also knows how to have fun, silly times when needed!!I am here for networking, friends, and dating with the intention of a serious relationship. I also love to have dynamic friends too! I don't like to rush things. I like to be friends for a while before anything serious happens. If nothing serious happens, then I still consider it a pleasure to meet you and hope to still be friends.....no hard feelings. One can never have too many friends!!!! I am extremely forward thinking but I am old fashioned when it comes to dating. I consider myself like a tomboy-princess....I like to be pampered (a little) and strive for nice things....but I don't mind getting dirty or playing rough either! I have the clothes, shoes, jewelry and all the necessary accessories for all occasions!! you should see my walk in closet!! :)I love outdoor activities....biking, playing in the woods...hiking, camping,etc. I love water....I love going to the beach or kayaking on rivers. Although I feel I have a ways to go before I can consider myself to be in great shape ....I like to be focused on health and fitness....keeping in shape, eating healthy and I love to exercise when I can. I like to surround myself with people who are similarly into fitness!I like listening to positive, influential and motivational speakers. I like taking classes and workshops on self improvement, higher knowledge, spiritual retreats and yoga! Occasionally I like to chill and just watch movies but keep television cut to a minimum. I much prefer to study, read or some other fun activity! I love the company of others but I like peace and quiet too! I don't like to hear too much profanity, smell smoke or date alcoholics!! If you drink a little that is ok!!And if you use drugs.....I am positively not interested...not even if it is just once a year! I really want a clean, sober man! And speaking of clean.... if you wanna be with me, it is required that you shower and brush teeth at least once a day!! Cleanliness is next to Godliness...or in my case goddessness!! ;)My Music tastes: anything ambient, underground alternative, world music, electronica, trance, spiritual, mantras/chant, dance music, some top 40, some r&b, some hip hop, some rock, anything I can dance to and anything with a good positive vibe! I will not listen to country, rap, or any sort of hard rock or metal.Movies: comedy, fantasy, sci-fi, drama, action/adventure, movies that inspire and are positive, movies that are profound and make you think! I don't like traumatic, disturbing or horror films. ( i don't mind sci-fi horror...that's ok(if it's not real, right?!)!!)And I believe in angels and such!!PS...I am working on a few extra projects right now, so don't be offended if it takes a minute or few days to get back to ya!PSS....I am very kind, loving, and big hearted but that doesn't mean that I will put up with any BS, drama, childish behaviour or anyone's crap. I am here for a TRUE person. I can be very assertive, I don't beat around the bush too much, I call it like I see it and have very keen skills for seeing through many people'BS and won't hesitate to confront it and then leave it in my wake. I don't tolerate abuse of any kind...physical, mental, or emotional. Life is too short for silly games. Good luck on your quest!! Somewhere that it is easy to talk and listen, no bright lights!! I love ambiance!! Go to a fantastic but different restaurant...I love ethnic food!! The beach in the evening!!skype?!! just kidding!!Play in the rain!!Walk in the park/beach!!Biking on the trails!!20 questions and answers!!Etc!It just depends!!...Update ***apparently I don't have much time for a date....so I was wondering if we could multitask together! I was thinking if you could ride around with me while i run my/your errands (if you drive that would be better!!) then we could stop and grab a bite to eat and then find something fun to do maybe? this way we could have fun, taking in the sites around town, chat a bit and also, see how each other drives...it could be a real adventure!! ;););)NEXT UPDATE!!! Looks like one of our dates will be playing in the rain!!! :DLATEST UPDATE: It has been really nice weather, finally.... and so nice outside....!!...ok...well maybe the one that only takes one person to hold it down....the kind that are 49' long....the octopus ones are really awesome to watch!:)Next latest thing....I think I want to learn how to wind surf! Anyone up for that!! :)

  • Genette

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Giving this a try since I do not like clubbing. I'm shy at first but loads of fun. Like all kinds of music. Love being a Mom and feeling needed. Love going to the movies when its a good one. My taste in movies ranges from Riddick to scary or comedy. Find out more later. Lol~~~~~~ I'm beginning to see why at least some of you are single... getting frustrated with this whole thing. Is it too much to ask for a great friend and partner in life?? I would say a good first date is safe at a movie or coffee shop. Something short is always better. Then if we are enjoying ourselves we can always prolong the date and get more adventurous.

  • Eleanora

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Ok, so I have two kids both boys 5 and 13, my profile says I want to date but nothing serious, but that's not exactly true. I guess if I meet the right person I would want something serious. I am looking to find somebody who wants to hang out and have fun. I am not a big planner, more spontaneous so some one who is laid back is probably the best fit for me! Sitting outside to have drinks and dinner or hopping in the car for a ride to the beach or the mountains is good for me. I would love to travel more, but it is difficult with two young kids...someday! Actually, I think I would rather have a house on the lake *** traveling...who knows.I'm a flip flop and jeans kinda girl, but I do like to get dressed up if the occasion calls for it.Obviously, you must like kids (or my kids) if it's going to work

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