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Asceline, 37
United States, Michigan, South Lyon

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Ok I tried this before and I met a few nice guys, some crazy guys, and met some guys I would have preferred to go my entire lifetime without meeting so I kind of just gave up. BUT living in a small town, my options are limited, so I'm back to try and see if the 'ol saying, 'better luck next time' has any truth to it. Who knows? Anything is possible. This is where it gets boring, my likes, dislikes and all that jazz. Call me old fashioned, but I'd rather have something to actually talk about if I decide to go out with someone. If I list them all here, we'd be left with those awful, awkward silent moments and honestly first dates are awkward enough, they don't need help from having nothing to talk about. So I'll just say, I like alot of things and there are some things I don't like. Generic enough? Ok, I'll help you out a little I suppose. Top 3 likes: football, sarcasm and music. Dislikes: narcissists, bad grammar, and laziness. My must haves/have nots:You must have a job, a good job, one where you can support yourself. I'm not a sugar momma and I'm not looking for a sugar daddy. You must have transportation. Like an actual automobile. I'm not a taxi service. You must be attractive. Yeah, I know that sounds shallow, but you all are thinking it. I'm just actually typing it out. You must be intelligent. We won't get very far if I can not understand you or if you can't carry on a conversation. You must not sound like any of the people from any of the tv shows; I do not watch any of these shows and the reason is because I can't understand what they are saying. Look, I know we live in the south but there's a difference in being a southerner and being a redneck. Sorry if that offends some but you're just not my type. There are plenty of women out there that dig that and I wish y'all the best of luck. You must not be old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son. My son is 17. So if my son would hang out with you, I wouldn't. You must know how to treat a woman. If you're sitting there as you just read that and thinking what did I mean by that statement, then you're probably not for me. I like romance (cause what woman in her right mind doesn't) and I would like a man that liked to be romantic. I will also add, and it's pretty pathetic that I even have to add this really but I must. If you are married, in a relationship, or just hooking up with some one on the side, you are not for me and I'm not for you. I despise liars and cheaters. So if I find out you are married, I will make it an effort to find your wife and tell her exactly what shenanigans you've got going here on a dating website. If you want to cheat fellas, you'd do better to keep looking for another woman with less class. I don't play that game well. Alrighty then, moving on...Hey, if you've gotten this far, you've already got potential, you've just read my first novel and possibly understand my sense of humor. So what's stopping you from sending me a message? Lol :-)The End. You're asking me out, you decide. By the time we actually go on a date, you'll know enough about me to have an idea on how to plan it. If not, meeting for coffee is always an option :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Delana

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm really surprised that the choice of mermaid is not available because that is what I would be!!!I crave someone who is ready for a dynamic relationship with a fantastic partner! I am looking for a spiritual, open minded guy who is ready to have consciousness expanded! Must be loving and kind, passionate, romantic, affectionate, intelligent, very mature, stable, ready and willing to give at least the same or more!! Someone who is honest, monogamous, has morals and high ethical standards.....someone who is conscious of doing the "right thing" at all times. Someone who is serious and responsible but also knows how to have fun, silly times when needed!!I am here for networking, friends, and dating with the intention of a serious relationship. I also love to have dynamic friends too! I don't like to rush things. I like to be friends for a while before anything serious happens. If nothing serious happens, then I still consider it a pleasure to meet you and hope to still be friends.....no hard feelings. One can never have too many friends!!!! I am extremely forward thinking but I am old fashioned when it comes to dating. I consider myself like a tomboy-princess....I like to be pampered (a little) and strive for nice things....but I don't mind getting dirty or playing rough either! I have the clothes, shoes, jewelry and all the necessary accessories for all occasions!! you should see my walk in closet!! :)I love outdoor activities....biking, playing in the woods...hiking, camping,etc. I love water....I love going to the beach or kayaking on rivers. Although I feel I have a ways to go before I can consider myself to be in great shape ....I like to be focused on health and fitness....keeping in shape, eating healthy and I love to exercise when I can. I like to surround myself with people who are similarly into fitness!I like listening to positive, influential and motivational speakers. I like taking classes and workshops on self improvement, higher knowledge, spiritual retreats and yoga! Occasionally I like to chill and just watch movies but keep television cut to a minimum. I much prefer to study, read or some other fun activity! I love the company of others but I like peace and quiet too! I don't like to hear too much profanity, smell smoke or date alcoholics!! If you drink a little that is ok!!And if you use drugs.....I am positively not interested...not even if it is just once a year! I really want a clean, sober man! And speaking of clean.... if you wanna be with me, it is required that you shower and brush teeth at least once a day!! Cleanliness is next to Godliness...or in my case goddessness!! ;)My Music tastes: anything ambient, underground alternative, world music, electronica, trance, spiritual, mantras/chant, dance music, some top 40, some r&b, some hip hop, some rock, anything I can dance to and anything with a good positive vibe! I will not listen to country, rap, or any sort of hard rock or metal.Movies: comedy, fantasy, sci-fi, drama, action/adventure, movies that inspire and are positive, movies that are profound and make you think! I don't like traumatic, disturbing or horror films. ( i don't mind sci-fi horror...that's ok(if it's not real, right?!)!!)And I believe in angels and such!!PS...I am working on a few extra projects right now, so don't be offended if it takes a minute or few days to get back to ya!PSS....I am very kind, loving, and big hearted but that doesn't mean that I will put up with any BS, drama, childish behaviour or anyone's crap. I am here for a TRUE person. 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I was thinking if you could ride around with me while i run my/your errands (if you drive that would be better!!) then we could stop and grab a bite to eat and then find something fun to do maybe? this way we could have fun, taking in the sites around town, chat a bit and also, see how each other drives...it could be a real adventure!! ;););)NEXT UPDATE!!! Looks like one of our dates will be playing in the rain!!! :DLATEST UPDATE: It has been really nice weather, finally.... and so nice outside....!!...ok...well maybe the one that only takes one person to hold it down....the kind that are 49' long....the octopus ones are really awesome to watch!:)Next latest thing....I think I want to learn how to wind surf! Anyone up for that!! :)

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  • Nguyet from South Lyon | Woman | 38 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm happy with my life and myself. I am not seeking someone to "complete me". I would like someone who makes the adventure that much more enjoyable and fun.I like to learn and do new things. I don't like to get complacent, and would be a far better match with someone who is the same.A lot of fun with a great sense of humor. I'm considered the life of the party amongst my friends. Some facts about me...Multi-Ethnic (Venezuelan, Russian, German, British)Well Traveled (Grew up in India and Europe)Adventurous SpiritHappier When by the SeaWriter - Mostly Short StoriesAlways Looking to Try New ThingsENFJAbout YouYou're Not Lonely. Desperation is palpable and unappealing to me.Business Professional with Goals and Ambitions (this is imperative or you're probably going to tire of me very quickly and vice versa)Adventurous/Love to Try New ThingsThis is not a deal-breaker, but if you're over 6ft 2, well that's just awesome. ;) Probably coffee. Really anywhere that a good conversation can be had.

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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