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Vernia, 32
United States, Michigan, Chelsea

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About Me

I would like someone where we compliment one anothers personality. Someone that works hard and has their priorities in line. I don't want to control someone, nor do I want them to try and control me. I want laughter, smiles, and when things get rough.....we do what we have to do to. I have kids and I'm close to my family. I would like someone that is connected to their family...and values family and being a good person. I'm direct....and I try to be as true of a person as possible...I'm not perfect...not looking for perfection....but I won't settle for less than what I want....and I expect the same attitude. I.m social....but I like my alone time. I ramble, obviously. I want someone who is direct and honest...because I am. Not mean honest...or unable to shut your mouth honest....lol....just regular honest. I need someone that likes to joke around, life is way to serious to not have a sense of humor. I like the harmless banter. I pester you on the couch, you pester me back then that ends with a physical battle of wrestling and smiles, and etc. I am sarcastic, onry, and spunky. I need a compliment to that.I want someone that is honorable, they make the right decisions, they can sleep at night knowing that the decisions they made within the day were good decisions...not someone who is always running from self made train wreck...to the next self made train wreck...covering up a lie, manipulating, self sabotaging....someone that things they are always the victim..and the world is against them. I don't want that. We all have choices, and I need someone strong, dependable, and logical. Someone who wants to be and strives to be a good person, father, brother, uncle, dad, etc. Someone that is determined in whatever they do. Someone that at the end of the day, typically can smile and recognize what positives they have in their life, and don't take those things for granted. I don't consider myself someone that is needy, and I do not want someone that is needy. I do however really really like feeling comfortable and safe with someone...and curling up to them, lounging on the couch, just hanging out. I am old-fashioned in ways. Not a cave man lol...but not some super sensitive guy that wants to cry on my shoulder.......all the time. A rough and tough mountain man that works hard, knows how to treat a lady. Bottom line, you must have these three things:1.2. Someone I would be proud to bring home to meet my family.3. A positive male role model for my children.There are a lot of things that a person would have to have to qualify for those three things. But I assure you, as I am not perfect, I only expect what I can also provide. I will settle for nothing less. And I might be single forever because of that, which is fine. No company is better than bad company. In addition I as I do have these things that I look for in a person, that is not to say I am seeking to rush into things to a massive serious level. If we dig each other, then we can proceed further, we will figure it out on the way. But I am not a jump into things quickly kinda person. Not husband hunting. Sure, if I found someone where were a good match, I would want to spend time with you, hear your voice and waht you have to say, spend time with you, open up to you, and etc. But marriage is a big deal, something I don't take lightly. Let's see if we dig each other first....and we can go from there.If we hit it off, then maybe we can meet..and chest bump....lol that's the romantic stuff...right? Or we could just hang out...and if it gets serious enough to chest bump....then so be it. Not sure why I type all this out, I don't think people usually read it anyways. Something fun, light, comfortable, and the least amount of awkwardness...makes for a great time. lol, surprise me. Anything.....can be wonderful time, with the right company. It could be a park at night...or in the day. A couch and a movie, four wheel riding, bonfire. It really doesn't matter. I don't require fancy. I wanna click, laugh, hang out, do whatever.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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