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Zella, 53
United States, Maine, Oakland

Offline, last seen Wed, 03 Dec 2025 02:11:46

About Me

I like to think I'm a good listener or at least I try very hard to be. I like to read body language. I also try very hard not to judge because it will only come back to me in form of bad karma or close me off to the possibility of knowing someone deeply. I like to sew and design things (wall hangings, quilts, tools, clothes) and build or repair things. I don't like hanging out in the sun. I love the ocean and camping. I don't cook but am a fan of those who do. I like working out at the gym. I used to be a Civil War reenactor, thinking about maybe getting involved with it again. I like wearing frilly clothes. I've been told by others that I'm weird (don't know what that means) but it's always (I mean always) said with a smile and great fondness. I like watching baseball/football but only with others. I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin. I can stay calm under pressure (at least look like it on the outside).I would like to hear about you.Update: The nose comment on my photo was meant to show off my nose in a very proud way.......I'm so surprised at how many of you guys think I don't like my nose (eye-ka-rumba). But just the same, thank you all for feeling the need to reassure me that my nose is ok......very thoughtful. I like men who are assertive and comfortable in their own skin. It's hard to write what I think is an ideal first date because I like things to be spontaneous....what can be written about that.....takes the surprise out don't you think? I would rather go for something simple to decide if we click....then let loose whatever makes life flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Chinese French Japanese Thai Comedy Fantasy Martial Arts Thriller Archery Collecting
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  • Fred from Oakland | Woman | 55 years old | Scorpio
    Fred

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Relocating for the right man is definitely an option!If you're truly serious about finding someone post a recent pic!!!!!!Just an FYI, if you post pics of yourself holding a beer bottle/can I'm pretty sure we're not going to be a match. If you have "undecided" on your profile to the question "Do you want children" we're not going to be a match as I have "decided" at this point in life that I do not want to have any more children. I really don't understand men in their 50's being undecided on this topic unless they are willing to do absolutely anything to get a woman, including have more children. It would be great to meet someone that I mesh with, but then isn't that what we all want. I'm looking for someone that's willing to start as friends and should a relationship develop that's great. I do have a playful nature as well as saying whats on my mind so if that's an issue for you then I'm not the one for you.If your idea of camping includes anything other than a hotel, I will not be joining you. I am just as at ease in a dress and heels as a pair of jeans and t-shirt. I love to cuddle in front of the fireplace or TV with that special someone. I love little surprises both giving and receiving in addition to being very romantic, sensual, passionate and a wonderful listener and companion. I am an independent person, so I understand my partner needing their own space and time just as I do.I like comedy clubs and going bowling or hiking thru the woods. I like walking the beach in the early morning and in the evening when the sun is going down, splashing a bit in the ocean and collecting odd shells. Deep sea fishing is something I truly enjoy as well, though haven't had the opportunity for awhile. I love going out for an evening to see a play, my first was Phantom of the Opera and that's when I fell in love with the theatre. I also enjoy going to the local movie theater to see the latest film. Dinner out is great, but dinner in with a bottle of wine and candles is a great evening as well. With regard to music I think it really depends on the mood at that particular time and tend to like most genres.I have no interest in an *** prefer to just meet if we both have an interest in each other rather than wasting time with a bunch of *** low key to determine chemistry.

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  • Lela from Oakland | Woman | 53 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I consider myself to be honest, and open minded, not afraid to speak my mind.I am a very caring person who likes people. I love the outdoors, sunrises, sunsets,beaches, fishing, thats a new one for me, I really enjoyed it. I love animals,gardening,arts and craft projects, reading and so much more. I pretty much enjoy most music,but some of my favorites are Skynard,Young and the Beatles. Right now I am looking to date for fun and companionship, and if someone comes along I guess we'll see where it goes. I am a down to earth woman and easily to get along with who likes to laugh and just wants to enjoy the rest of my life. For u guys out there, that keep up with a "Friends with benefit offer, u can keep that shit, I can have that, but I don't roll like, and never will.Good luck to all ! First dates can be a little nerve racking,so whatever would make us both comfortable. I think something simple, going for a bite to eat someplace relaxing, like a hole in the wall with good food. Or a walk on the beach with coffee or whatever, like I said 1st dates can be awkward and I think it's easier to go simple to see if we click and then expand on possible future dates.

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  • Kimber from Oakland | Woman | 54 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Thanks for stopping by to read my profile. I enjoy all aspects of life but really love the ocean and the beach. I am very much a city girl but do enjoy the country on occasion .I am well traveled, love the theater, dancing, animals and fashion. I also love sports of all kinds especially NFL and college football. I am easy going and my friends tell me my smile is contagious and that I have never met a stranger. I think exercise is important and i enjoy Yoga, walking, and eating healthy. I am looking to write a new chapter in my life..Must have current pictures Must not be looking for a sexual encounterMust not do drugsMust live inside the loopMust be emotionally availableMust be single Let's meet somewhere we can enjoy a drink and have great conversation and see what happens....Somewhere where conversation is required....

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