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Hiedi, 55
United States, Maine, Oakland

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About Me

IF YOU DON'T LIKE TALKING ON THE PHONE AND THINK TEXT AND *** CONVERSATION...I DON'T!!! Text is to just say hi or to see if we can talk on the phone. I will NOT hold a conversation by texting. Dang, I hate to keep adding things here. It's been pointed out to me that I cuss, sometimes too much...I'm 55 and don't think this will change much...if cussing upsets you, guess you should pass me byI DON'T TAKE RIDERS...PLEASE DO ME A FAVOR AND DON'T ASK!PLEASE!!! IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR LIVING WITH SOMEONE IN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP, PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME! I'm NOT interested in being ON THE SIDE or a F-BUDDY. Please read my profile and make sure we have some things in common before contacting me...I won't hesitate to tell you if I think we don't.THE MENTALITY OF THE MOTORCYCLEBE WHAT YOU ARE SAY WHAT YOU THINK DO WHAT YOU WANT GO WHERE YOU WILL STAND BY YOUR WORDIf you scare easy, you might as well quit reading now. Or maybe looks are the most important thing to you. Keep going. When a hand is extended upon meeting someone new and the handshake is not accepted, that's an insult. If someone writes to me, even though I'm not interested, I do send a response. What's wrong with the rest of you? Do you have so many friends that you don't need another? I'm just saying, it's rude not to respond when someone makes a friendly gesture. I don't feel you can get to know someone well through texting and IM. I like to go to the phone pretty quickly, hear a person's voice, laugh with them and see if we have anything to say to each other.While I am looking for a long term relationship, I'm also interested in making new friends. As for the relationship thing, I am looking for that man who can look me in the eye, always tell me the truth and make me laugh. You might think that telling the truth is easy but I've come to find people avoid it when they think someone will get mad at them for saying it. I prefer to tell the truth and hear the truth, even if it hurts someone's feelings or mine. Those that prefer to deal with things by using the silent treatment need not apply. ALSO, SINCE I RIDE MY OWN MOTORCYCLE, I'D PREFER SOMEONE WHO RIDES FOR A RELATIONSHIP. Nothing better than being on the road with your someone special. If you don't ride, I know we could be friends but if you didn't like motorcycles and many people don't, well, that wouldn't work out.I believe myself to be intelligent, hilarious and sexy. I am passionate about many things, in a relationship and in the world. I believe that I can do anything (my mom agrees)and I usually succeed, sometimes due to blind luck. I am a smart ass and politically, libertarian is about the only thing I can find some agreement on. One of my friends says I'm a redneck-liberal. About church and God. I don't go but I believe...something I read in an *** "I'd rather be on my bike thinking about God then be in church thinking about my bike." I say "Thank God" everytime I ride for giving me a good day to ride and the ability to ride my own.I'm hoping to find the person who is already the way I imagine my man to be. Hopefully, I might be close to your ideal. Let's face it. We're grown and pretty much set in our ways. I've also found something out about kissing. If you don't like the way someone kisses, where can you go from there? Friends for sure. I like my kisses slow, soft and sensual. Hard and quick is only good for a couple of things...kissing is not one of them.I am a free spirited, slightly opinionated woman and hoping to find the same in a man. I love the wind in my face, whether on a horse, a motorcycle, the beach or the top of a mountain. If you have little interest in music or listen to things like smooth jazz or easy listening, we ain't gonna get along. Don't know much about classical music but wouldn't mind learning more.One more caveat. I treat others the way I would like them to treat me. This means I try to always do what I say I'm going to do. Call when I say I'll call. Be there when I say I'll be there. Many people seem to have a problem with this but I believe it's the way grown up human beings should act.One more thing...I understand if you don't want to write a lot about yourself or post a picture on this site but if you contact me, be ready to have a conversation, send more info and a picture to the ***'ll provide Let's ride!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jerusha from Oakland | Woman | 52 years old | Scorpio
    Jerusha

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Well, I've been on here for awhile now .. It's really ridiculous how many guys respond to me and are not my type. I am looking for somebody who can hold a conversation, loves to travel, enjoys the theater or concerts.. Sunsets-sunrises.. No small children please as mine are grown and I'm enjoying me for awhile .. Not that I don't like children but I'm relaxing. I love the water and spend a lot of my time either on a lake or beach. Please don't respond if this doesn't sound like you.. And if you do respond and this isn't in your criteria .. then I'll just assume that you can't read and comprehend. What would I do? Well lets see - probably dinner and drinks somewhere that we could actually hold a conversation. I guess depending on the connection would depend on what we would do next. Im just looking for someone who has something going on in life and wants to enjoy. Please dont respond if you are only looking for casual sex - this is not why Im on here.

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  • Kimber from Oakland | Woman | 54 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Thanks for stopping by to read my profile. I enjoy all aspects of life but really love the ocean and the beach. I am very much a city girl but do enjoy the country on occasion .I am well traveled, love the theater, dancing, animals and fashion. I also love sports of all kinds especially NFL and college football. I am easy going and my friends tell me my smile is contagious and that I have never met a stranger. I think exercise is important and i enjoy Yoga, walking, and eating healthy. I am looking to write a new chapter in my life..Must have current pictures Must not be looking for a sexual encounterMust not do drugsMust live inside the loopMust be emotionally availableMust be single Let's meet somewhere we can enjoy a drink and have great conversation and see what happens....Somewhere where conversation is required....

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  • Carlie from Oakland | Woman | 55 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Im looking for my last first love,that click,that spark, my soul mate,partner in crime,lover,my best friend ,whos loving,faithfull,funny is a big time bonus, communication and honesty is a must! That's the big key to a having a healthy relationship if you cant have that?Big red flag right there!.looking for someone to spend the other half of my life with. Im not a quitter I will stick by your side threw good times and bad. And Im sure not into the game playing,to old for that anymore and this heart doesn't want to be hurt anymore.Ive always gave OVER100% in my relationships to make it work,But I must have that back in return,...Im sure hes out there somewhere looking for me as well,maybe its you?,Im not looking for the perfect man,just perfect for me,glass half full half empty,Im glad just to have the glass. Me? Im easy to get along with just go with the flow I don't look my age and sometimes don't act it, try to make the best of everything and laugh it off.I most of the time have a smile on my face or got my giggling going on, but I do have my serious side when need be....Im loyal, honest and trusting big hearted and love just about everyone, Im happier in my jeans and being a down to earth girl would take the country any day over the city just seems Ive had enough of it.,.My kids are all the family I have left plus 1 grandchild so my hearts open to you and your family most are package deals ,Just missing the last puzzle piece in my life to make it complete.So lets turn the page,and close the book and both delete this site.Well good luck in the pond looking for your fish..plus and if you don't have a pic and cant post one on here don't bother its only fair,mine are up to date,and always told I look better in person then my pics,and you out of staters pleazzz ,,really???... HAVE A GREAT DAY AND SMILE AND SEND A MESSAGE MY WAY! also the chat doesn't work..FYI and you scammers I may be blonde but Im not that dumb,so lets not even try to go there please move on to the next profile! Coffee,tea,drinks,quite place to talk, .....and "NOT INTO THE BAR SCENE" ...only go when a good band is playing!!!

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