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Effie, 54
United States, Maine, Farmington

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About Me

I am a woman with a creative background who loves to be with people who can make me laugh, whom strangers think I may be shy, but inside has a wicked grin, the occasional inappropriate thought, and friends whom I prove this to often. I am extremely loyal, compassionate, affectionate, and non-racist (don't judge me by my intolerance to intolerance). I love a good conversation, and to have my mind challenged. I believe I am smart enough that you wouldn't be tempted to throw blonde jokes my way. (well maybe once in awhile, I often push a door when it clearly says PULL). I make mistakes, but I own them. I need feedback and the truth. (I have yet to develop the skill to read minds and as cliche as it sounds, communication is key). The type of man I thrive with is an outgoing take-charge kind of man, it brings out the best in me. While I'm very independent, it's nice to throw the keys to someone else for a change. I enjoy my own company, but it's nice to share time with a good man. I've learned that looks are for the most part irrelevant (although you need that initial spark) and that it's how a man makes her woman feel that's important. And this goes both ways. A small gesture goes a long way with me. My musical favourites run from blues and rock and everything in between. I love to watch live bands. I'm just looking for someone special to share some of my favourite things to do, and would love to be introduced to some new ones.While I'm fine with myself where I am physically, I am a constant work in progress, working on bettering myself and need someone to accept me as i am right now, and enjoy the ride with me. I am a big woman with an even bigger heart. If you judge me by my hair colour, skin colour, or body size, you will miss entirely who I am. My mantra? Say what you mean, and mean what you say. I think that bridge should be crossed when we get to it. Something casual and simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Metal Traveling British English Portuguese Turkish Adult Adventure Documentary Horror Sport
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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