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Ainsley, 52
United States, Massachusetts, Winthrop

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About Me

Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    The best things are the simple things, don't you think? Good friends, engrossing conversation with bright people, live music, campfires, good meals, flowers blooming: the list is endless, really. Your list may differ, but think about it. Doesn't it all boil down to attitude? I've heard as much as 95% of our life can be attributed to our attitude. And I agree. If you choose to look at the positive side you are someone I'd love to meet. My life is good; full of fun and interests and friends I love and respect. You may infer something's missing from my good life, I'm not in a panic about it, but let's see what happens. You? A new friend? Could be one of those simple "best" things. However, let's be clear: grey hair, receding hair, no hair? I don't care. A good physique? I care. Call me superficial (but no more so than any man); I work to remain fit and slim. I'd appreciate the same effort from you. Please be aware I'm tall. And I adore high heels. That usually puts me at, oh, 6' in height.-existent I'll be romantically interested in someone short.Thanks for stopping by, and in the interest of being straight-forward, some of my photos date back to July ***. Not much has changed.... Let's not expect too much. Casual is good. A game of pool, a beer or glass of wine, conversation? Weather permitting, a walk around the reservoir?

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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