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Andera, 51
United States, Massachusetts, Westminster

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I MADE IT!! I am up walking losing weight and doing great!! thanks to an amazing woman!! takes a woman to understand a woman.. she saw the beauty in me and have me what I needed to get well.!! now that's love!!JULY ***: I gotta laugh... they want someone SWP ( size and weight proportinant) or they aren't into big women... here are a few examples of what I think about all that. first of all I have a medical condition that put me this way and at least I am trying to get better and I am not judging you.. I am probably one of the best people you would ever meet sooo....slip that shoe on the other foot, or try and clean your own kettle first.. I don't care if you orange green purple or blue.. big small tall short.. In the end its all about what is on the inside, unconditional love and a pure honest heart or you will be lonely sad and looking for someone again..personally makes more sense to find someone who will be by your side till the end, sickness and health good times and bad, your best friend! or continue to judge your loss.. sorry had to finally say it I have been on this site since 09 and honestly loosing faith in my perception of menJune ***... Little more about me.. posted new pic from today.. I haven't always been like this..350lbs.. I was a firefighter and medic for many years.. I was good at it and where my passion lied.. I wanted to air-evac but never got the chance.. I was a model when I was in my 20's.. I have owned my own business.. I own my own little whole in the wall may not be much but its paid for.. I have been rich and I have been poor.. personally I have found the only thing that is of utmost importance is ones spirit and soul with unconditional love.. I am fighting to get me back, but would love to find someone who can look and see the treasure inside me and know that I will be loved for who I am not what I look like.. I love so many things.. the water, gardens, the night sky, exploring new places, music ( not rap) old and new., theater live or movies, flea markets, shopping, animals, old people, children's laughter, family, friends, four wheelers, jet skis, boats, fishing, crafting, building things, learning new things.. motorcycles, antiques, taken the forgotten roads to no where just driving and sight seeing with no specific destination.. life in general .. love kisses that make you forget where you are that can melt you and send you to a different place.. I love with my whole heart... I would like to find someone can see my potential and me become what we both would want.. praying someone is out there that really would want the same.. UPDATE!!!......... Hard to bleive that I have been on this site 4yrs.. I am honestly tired of reading bogus profiles.. I AM HUMAN, I AM BEAUTIFUL, AND I HAVE A HEART BIGGER THAN ANY OTHER!! So what if I am fat.. the more I get around the weight will come off.. my outter person can change but fake , dishonest people will always be what they are.. I am sad because I want to believe there is still someone out there that is honest and can feel my spirit heart and soul, ..! PLEASE SEE ME!! Time for a change.. I have been on this site since ***. I have been honest and upfront about everything, maybe I am just never going to know what its like to be loved again, but really that is someone else's loss.. I am a very sweet loving caring honest person that is trying to make some positive changes in her life and would like to have someone around on this journey.. I am a very big girl.. I am ***and 5'8" and no I don't have a large chest, I have been in a wheelchair for the past two years and I am tired of vegetating. I AM NOT PARALIZED!! I CAN WALK!!, I am working my tail off to walk again. I can walk it just causes severe pain. I am ready to live again or die trying!! With that being said if your still curious at all these are my interest.. I like working in the yard, I like to build things ( I built my own wheelchair ramp) and deck.. I like crafts of all kinds.. I like to fish..ride on motorcycles ( behind someone..lol) travel.. drives to nowhere in the country, through old towns, .. I was married for over 20 yrs I have 3 biological children and one young adopted child that doesn't know she is adopted , I also have 6 grandchildren.. I love my family with all heart.. I am down to earth, I am not wealthy but rich in love.. I believe in unconditional love.. I am old fashion and have a pretty good head on my shoulders.. I am finally ready to really give this a real try, are you a real man of your word and want someone real and unconditional love? Oh and I love to kiss so if your a good kisser that is a plus!! Really if I was not honest and upfront.. how would you feel if you came to meet me and I rolled up..lol...lol..I know for a fact there is someone out there for everyone, I just gotta find him.. hey you.. come on what do you have to loose? Totally depends on what kind of connection I find..

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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